I Helped A 19 y-o Entrepreneur Build His Dream Dating Life in 90 Days

You ever meet a guy who's young, hungry, building a business, learning fast, pushing hard, and yet still feels like something's missing? That was Denny. Just 19, this kid was already investing over 5 figures into his growth, juggling 3 jobs, building an agency, making music, and throwing punches in the ring. But despite the ambition, despite the grind, he could feel it. He wasn't fully in it. With women, with emotions, with himself. Something was off. Something was stuck. You just couldn't name it until we started working together. Now, I'm not gonna spoil what happened, but let's just say it's rare to see a transformation this fast, this deep, and this real. Now, if you're done with surface-level dating and you're ready to master your vibe, own your emotions, and attract women who truly align with your vision, apply for coaching below. The shift doesn't happen when you meet her. It happens when you finally meet you. Now let's vibe with Danny.

All right, we are here. Welcome, Danny. How's the vibe?

I've been amazing. Amazing. Like Australia, 7 o'clock in the morning is always amazing. I mean, get your cup of coffee and sit there, relax and have a cigarette.

Love it. 10 PM here in London was 7 AM in Australia. Love it.

Yeah, 7.

Appreciate it. A little bit about me. If you're watching this video and you've never come across me. I'm Stephen. I help high performers create their dream relationships and lifestyles through bespoke one-on-one coaching and global retreats, House Manifest. And this is Danny. He's a client of mine. We've been working together for the past 3 months. Yeah, completely online. He's a precocious entrepreneur from Australia. That's the best way I would describe you. Yeah, it's, you're very much of a multidimensional figure. And yeah, the crazy thing is, yeah. Since we've been working together, a lot of amazing things have happened. And I just want to take a moment to really kind of capture this vibe. And yeah, just like kind of like go deep into really understanding what's occurred since we started working together. So yeah, Daniel, if you don't mind introducing yourself and telling us a bit about your background.

Let's just start back at the very, very beginning. So This is where the journey first all started. So I wanted to be an Olympic rower at one stage when I was about 13, 14. So that's where my journey first started. And then ever since there, I just discovered entrepreneurship and basically you can make money from your phone instead of just being stuck inside a job. And that's where pretty much my whole life changed. And then I just started looking at marketing of cryptos now recent, but we've been playing with stocks, shares, businesses. And I don't have a major part to do with that at the moment, but I'm building up my own agency. Um, we're also doing our own, um, me and my mate are doing our own independent music artist called, what is it? RIP Mike Before. So that's what our music group's called. And, but yeah, let's get it to the top and yeah, honestly, just, just talk to everyone and see where the journey leads.

Yeah. Amazing. And you are, how old are you right now?

19, I'm 20 in December.

Crazy. Crazy. Yeah. So one of the craziest things that I've learned about Danny when we started working together is that he's 19. And I think that the first thing that you told me was that like, you've already invested what, like over like $50,000 in personal development. $50,000. Something like that. $20,000 in books.

$50,000 as of the course now.

Crazy. So let's start from there because like, if you're someone who's already invested like a lot of yourself in personal development and you're already on this journey, um, before we started working together, where were you in your life?

Um, so I was very much stuck in the hedonistic hellhole of the 9 to 5, working 3 jobs. I was just trying to make that little bit of extra money just to try and basically boot my way to escaping. I recently joined the real world as well, just as a time of literally ran about 2 days before I met Stephen. And because I'm like, actually I was at a stage where I was just finished off at a stage working 20 hours a day over about a month straight, which was between 3 jobs. And there's a lot more to that, that story, which is partly why I wanted to work with Stephen. There's a lot more to that, which we'll get into later. Ah, man, but I was working 20 hours a day all throughout January, probably only slept like 2 hours really. But yeah, I just wanted a change in my life. So then I just wanted to start an agency and just wanted to slowly just basically make it to the top with a group of people, which I'm slowly creating into a clan at the moment. So then we can just eventually just end up helping each other and just getting out of the matrix entirely.

Got it. So like you were working quite a bit and you were stretched pretty thin. At the same time, you had a bit of a vision and you were like, okay, like I wonder what else is out there.

Like I, I would make like 10, 15 grand a month and I was just like, it's not worth the— got it. I just wanted to add that as well. I was just, yeah, it just wasn't worth it.

Got it. Yeah. Why was it not worth it?

Because I had no social life, had the, there's easier ways to do it, like through running a business and obviously CryptoPunks exists.

Yeah.

You can do it through their stocks, shares. You can rate them pretty easily once you get into these tight little circles. But also when you basically help people network, or if you advertise and help people with their marketing, they can massively give you better returns. So I thought that would be a better way. Plus I'm not being taxed 45%. Mm-hmm. Because it's 3 jobs, I get taxed 45% on my second and 45% on my third.

Yeah.

Yeah. And I just thought if I can technically do it all under the one bridge, then it's better off doing it that way instead of just doing it through multiple. Unless the multiple came all to that one bridge. Yeah.

Got it. Amazing. Great. Nice one. And in addition to that, what was your love life like and what challenges were you facing?

So I had a lot of chicks interested in me who were low quality. I had one who I thought was one who lied to me and perceived that she was high quality, but she wasn't. I also, at one stage, I wasn't aware of this, but I was One of my mates was in a relationship, but I was also speaking to the girl who he was cheating on his girlfriend with and also still technically dating another chick at the same time. So I wasn't aware of that. So it's a bit of a, I was just trying to more so get a proper relationship, but also try and basically keep my options open because I'm like, just wait. Like you might as well use everyone who you, no, not use, um, you might as well see everyone who you can and then you can see the true colors and then just basically be like, what do you want to do? How you can properly use this plan of attack from there and get like a proper idea of what kind of relationship you will have with them in the future or what's going to happen based on maybe patterns in the past. And I just wanted an upgrade from the self-centered, basically, I'm just going to say egotistical is a nice way of putting it, chicks that I'm used to and just wanting to get someone who's willing to share more so the vision and basically spiritually help me on that vision while I physically, monetarily, and technically also mentally help them get to a dream life they want to build.

Got it. Great. That's very clear. And why did you decide to work with me?

I don't get this feeling from many people, but there's just some form of excitement that I get because like, I like, even at the moment, I, my chest is still shaking. It's just like a constant, it's not like a nervousness, it's more like an excitement. I don't get this from many people. It's, I get like what I, with other people, I get either like a sick feeling or basically something's off. With Stephen, I didn't get that. So then it's just like jump on a call. We started talking and it was just like, this is what I do. How we, what do you do? Let's look at this together. Let's see a vision. And then we just, yeah. Just did it all from there. Just, just from that gut feeling.

Got it. Wow. That's, that sounds, sounds pretty powerful actually. Like you just trusted your intuition in a way. And what changes would you say you've seen now since we started working together in your life?

I've seen a lot more of the more so deep, meaningful conversations, but yet also enough of an emotional like swing to them. So then they can basically, I can shift and divert them whenever I want instead of just being like autistically logical. With people. Let's see.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Because I'm just like numbers, numbers, numbers, because that's all I'd see pretty much all the time, or working for a broker. So that's—

yeah, yeah.

And basically doing sales, I just made pretty much just count figures. And but yeah, instead of just sticking to that numbers-orientated world, I— we also learned how to flow in that more feminine, ex— the Vagazio world, you know, everything is real but nothing's real. So pretty much just chop and change. And also I would just like in a few instances I just called out the elephant in the room and it just led to 5, 6 hour conversations on the spot. And basically I had one chick said I've pretty much made her garden grow bigger, which means that I've just opened up her heart and feel much more, basically more, her heart to be a lot more tender and basically more loving, even though she came from a pretty disgraced background.

Wow. That sounds pretty powerful. Did you uncover any blind spots or have any insights during our time working together.

Yeah, I still have blind spots, which is just going to happen. That's just part of being human. Um, although my— one of my biggest blind spots was push and pull. I also very much have a tendency to just— I enjoy doing this though. I've changed it since we've been doing the completions, but I very much had to basically get the emotion from 1 to 100 and then just ride it till it drops and then just stay numb and then Basically go up, down, but then that's where the completion is just completely flipped it. And it's just like, you just stay the same. You're saying like this strange sort of, oh, how could I describe it? So imagine like you can see the world's moving at like a quarter of the speed. You can see everything moving at like a quarter of the speed. You can see, think of it sort of like that scene from The Matrix as you dodge the bullets. That's how it feels like even while I'm sparring, I can see the punches before they even throw it. Probably the best way to describe it. You can see what's gonna happen and you can be like, this is gonna happen, this is gonna happen, this is gonna happen. If this person says this, this person says this, and you can just connect to both that, see into the future and be like, I can see how this person's life is gonna end up through that, through that. And yeah.

Wow. It like helped you grow your almost your intuitive ability in a way.

Pretty much, yes.

That's crazy. How did that happen?

I think part of it was during about being punched in the face enough, but the other part was just doing the completions and just because I'm very much a pattern-oriented person, so I'm just like, hmm. I generally see people for what they have done based on their past, but also their trendline for the future as well. That's just basically based on, well, we live in a world of patterns, so that's more so like just seeing what you have seen and how those patterns can reflect other areas of their life. So yeah, it's just basically given me more of an insight and basically been able to talk to people and, and then just get more info based on that, I should say, group of people. Then I can just make an insight from there.

Got it. Sounds like the completion exercise, that framework really was one of the most insightful game changer things for you. Can you talk more about that? Like for the viewer watching this right now, you know, what is this completion thing and like what did you really take away from this?

Okay, so completions are completing parts of your past which you have uncomplete emotions about, which you can still have incomplete emotions about if you don't do it properly. So it's just, there's one of a few ways of doing it. So there's easiest way to start off with is the writing side. Just write it down, write down the second and third layer of that emotion and just finishing it off there and then. The second part, which is more enjoyable, is the part where you can sort of play that event out in your head and then you can just see all the different angles of what's going to happen and what could have happened and why was that event happen that way, basically. And then also dig into the emotions deeper and deeper from there and see what you could and couldn't done. But then just be like, I did the best move I could at the time. Um, this is probably about a God's plan, and honestly, this is the best outcome. I'm grateful that the event happened, even if it was a major low for me and if it just changed my character completely. And yeah, or there's another way of doing it, like I like to do it as well. I prefer doing this in anger just because it's easier, just obviously, but you can also do it while you're calm as well. You can swap and change emotions at will. Like I like to anchor myself on one side of the emotional spectrum and then another, like let's just say I got anger and calm. I anchor myself towards calm, do the completions, hit the calm, and then jump back to the anger and then I just get another layer and then I just get into that second and third layer of the emotions and just dip deeper and deeper while all about expressing the outward emotion. I'm also just calm, peace, and just serene. It's kind of wild, but it's taken me probably 3 months to learn how to do that.

And yeah, that sounds insane, just like the way you described it, because like I've always been explaining it to you, right? Like I've been sort of teaching you how to do it, but actually it's, it's the first time. Hearing from your side, like how you perceive it, you know, and yeah, it's very thorough and I just love the way you kind of broke it down and I love it and I really, really am happy that this is the part that you derive the most value from, it sounds like. And yeah, I mean, this is one of the most powerful, if not the most powerful skills that you can actually learn and master because once you really, really master this skill set, that you learn how to be very, very present in whatever you do, and you're not affected by events, right? You have agency, you know, over what actually happens in your life. So very, very powerful. And I'm very, very pleased to hear that, you know, you've really, really, really had a firm handle on that. So amazing. Nice one. How quickly would you say you started seeing results ever since we started working together?

Roundabout, was it like 2 months ago that you had your house manifest?

Yeah. Yeah, that was, wow. It was actually coming like 3 months ago now.

Yeah, because it was like probably 2 weeks after that. Basically just took a bit to start, just as we know, every, you can't get anything in momentum or you, getting the momentum is the most difficult part. So basically once we got the momentum, once we got the first, let's just say 10 or 20 out and then I just, he said there's also other ways to do it. Like you can do it while driving on like driving, basically listening to your thoughts and just sort of meditating on it. And then I'm just like, I've got a wild ass head. Let's see how that's going to go.

You do. That one you do for sure.

That's one way to put it. So I just thought I'd just give that a shot and since I know I can get my emotions to be either zero, I already was learning a bit of emotional self-control. Before, because you gotta be very calm and very methodical when you fight. So it's just basically using a little bit of skills from that and just use that to also accelerate me forward.

Yeah, love it. Nice one. Now, knowing what you know now, where do you see yourself a year from now after our work together?

In the field of relationships or everything?

Let's start with relationships.

If I end up Finding the dream woman that I've been more so waiting for. I see that as a long, prosperous relationship because if she's like that exact type of woman that I want, just because I'm more so able to stay in my masculine a lot more and just getting more and more ways to provide and just start trying to become the man more so. So that's just adding more and more skills to that tool belt, and that's really through that rock solid foundation.

Amazing.

And let's just go for business as well. Won't be making decisions on a will, on a whim as much just because I got that self-control and the world still has stroboscope. The business world still feels like it moves at 100 miles an hour, but it's like I can, I'm dilating through time as well. As I said before, I can just see what's gonna happen before it happens. Not all, I'm not completely right all the time, but that's just life, I guess. More logical decisions, more just more so just sticking to the more masculine characteristics.

Got it. It's great. Looking forward to that. In addition to the completions, what parts of our sessions did you find most valuable?

Probably just talking to you. Like I generally enjoy talking to you, so it's more so like, that was the one thing that I was really looking forward to every week. We just go, it's just so much.

Yeah. What, what about it do you think? You were like looking forward to, like, I mean, when you, when you talk to me, like what, what did you feel like you were sort of like gaining?

Knowledge, expertise. It's more so you've lived double the life that I've lived and that knowledge you've also imported and I just thought getting your perspective on things is important as well. You've seen— Your years have been very, very different to mine. This is, yeah, even in the last like 19, 20 years, your, your years have been very, very different than mine. That's just an interesting to take another perspective on it. Got it.

Love that.

And I was just, yeah. And also just a push and pull and just like, because I'm not the greatest at that. Yeah. We've just learned how to do that.

You learn pretty fast though. I think like you're just such a fast learner. That's like one of the reasons why I've really, really enjoyed, I've really, really enjoyed working with you because it's just like, I don't need to talk about the same concept multiple times. Like I like really. Like we talk about something and you just get it and you just implement right away, which is like something that I really respect, you know, because like not a lot of people have, have that vibe, you know. Can you share specific moments or exercise that was transformative for you?

I'll just go back to completions for that one, just because that's the most transformative and that's just been the most consistent. Because at the last, say, 6 weeks, I've just been stuck in business and fighting mode just because I've got a fight coming up in about 3 weeks. And basically just having a bit of fun when I can and just basically talking to chicks, a little bit more of that emotional flow, but just, it's probably about a 70-30 split just because I'm just super logical. I'm just like, it's kill or be killed, or I don't have time for.

Love that. Yeah. By the way, for the viewer watching this video, um, just to kind of reiterate what it means to have the completions taken care of. Like what it means to complete something, right? The purpose of it is that like you want to have this blank canvas on which you design your life powerfully. A lot of the time, because human beings are, we're all meaning-making machines. So when an event happens, we end up attaching emotions to that event. And without even knowing this about it, our past events, like through our past events, we end up forming a certain story and belief, you know, about ourselves and about the world. And these experiences affect our, not only our past, but also our present and future. And by always, by learning how to actually complete all the incompletions, your world is whole and complete. You are whole and complete, right? And it's the best gift that you can give to yourself and also to others. Because like, when you're coming in without any baggage, then yeah, I mean, that's, that's kind of like the best thing you can actually give to someone, right? Your entire presence and like without any clutter, like just emptiness, you know? So that's kind of like obviously there's so many different layers and nuance to it, but this is kind of like the intro vibe. You already kind of spoke about this. Brother, how would you say your work impacted other areas of your life?

Pretty much when it affects one area, it affects all.

Yeah.

It's just been fairly consistent. Just been mostly a blank canvas. I've just obviously used a bit more anger over love because I've chose to.

Mm-hmm.

Just because I'm just like, I'm just trying to just more so anchor myself between calm and calm, uh, calm and anger just because it's just you've got to get that neutral mix in the fight because you're going to be aggressive enough. But I don't— it's even like changed my whole style of fighting as well, like more of a see what they're going to do and then hit back than just aggressively or sometimes cheekily just basically hit, hit whenever I can.

Yeah.

And just using more and more tactics. And just because you're in that calm state, you can just see what's going to happen and then you can just try out different approaches and then see how one approach is gonna go if they do this pattern and this pattern, or just basically reiterate, throw something new in and then just try a new pattern after that. And, or try that pattern again or a new pattern after that. Maybe it's just, yeah, it's just probably the best way to describe it. It's just more of a neutral, the board feels more, the game feels more in my favor. It's probably the best way to describe it.

Yeah, I love that. Love that. Very clear.

Cool.

Now, would you recommend my coaching and mentorship to others and why?

Yeah, I would. Also, once we do the second and third part, I would also recommend it just based off the net of knowledge that you provided and experience over the last video calls. I would very much recommend it for anyone who's struggling with trying to get that masculine and feminine dynamic in their relationship. Also, like if I'm just going to say this bluntly, like if your wife won't have sex with you, I would recommend this just because this will help her become more attracted to you just in general. It's just that foundation that like the feminine needs to feel at ease. But I would recommend this to anyone who doesn't have this foundation because it's just life-changing.

Wow. Thank you for that. And obviously like you've kind of, um, you already kind of know this world, right? Like a lot of other. People who offer similar coaching or consulting, you know, and mentorship, what would you say, knowing what you know, what would you say really differentiates my coaching compared to others?

The video is a massive thing because a lot of the mentors just call you over the phone or just text. It's just, unless you know them in person, it's, you still get this sort of in-person sort of like, you know, you've known him, like the first time I met Stephen, I felt like I've known him for forever. Like you, you remember our first conversation, it went on for like about an hour. It's just like, it just feels so at ease. It's just very much, I don't even remember what the question is, but it's just, you know, your old friend, it's just like, like one of your best mates is just trying to push you forward and just trying to get you like, like trying to nudge you that little bit to like be like, hey, you should probably pick up your game a bit at this area. I can more so see that compared to other mentors where you've gotta, where you don't have that one-on-one connection and you just gotta relay all the information back to them. And you're just like, this is what's happened, this is how it's gonna go, and what do you think I should approach it from here? It's just, it just feels a lot more personal and it feels like you're actually, if you know what I mean.

Yeah. And that's what, that's what I strive for. So I appreciate you reflecting that back.

Yeah.

It's amazing. Well, I've had such an amazing time working with you over the past 3 months and I'm super, super stoked to continue to be your most trusted advisor in your journey because you've got— you're such an inspirational leader. That's who I see you as. And yeah, super, super excited. And I just can't wait to see you just kind of keep it on, you know?

Yeah.

Yeah, that's the vibe, brother.

Thank you so much.

Thanks, Julian. Any, any parting thoughts?

Thank you for the last 3 months. There's, there's more on your Instagram. Go follow his Instagram. You'll see more there.

Good stuff. Good stuff. All right.

That's it.

That's it.