Most dating app users fail because they have no strategy, just casual scrolling. Without a hook, your profile drowns in thousands of others. One woman's profile got 800 likes in a day, showing the brutal competition men face.
Do you think dating apps are a net positive or a net negative?
I think most people don't know how to use dating apps correctly. Dating apps are tools, and you have to adapt your strategy given what that technology is capable of doing. If you try to use dating apps casually, you're probably going to be infuriated, depressed, and hopeless. Like, you need a strategy, and that strategy generally requires massive action, especially for men.
As a man, you gotta think of yourself as like you're making a YouTube video. When you go on youtube.com, the homepage, you You see hundreds and thousands of YouTube videos. Every video is screaming for your attention. You don't even know any of the content, right? You're like, okay, what actually hooks me? Same way in terms of dating apps. If you wanna play that game, learn how to be polarizing, learn how to put yourself out there authentically, and don't be afraid to be polarizing. Because if you're just kind of like blending in just like everyone else, like you don't stand out. This is the reality. The other day I created a dating profile for my girlfriend just because I wanted to see what women experience. Now, mind you, we didn't even put a lot of thought into it. We just picked, you know, 4 or 5 photos, not even thirst trap photos. And guess what? Within a day, she got over like 800 swipes or likes. If you're a beautiful woman, this is your reality. Now it's just overwhelming. So like, as a guy, how do you actually really stand out? How do you actually authentically communicate your intention? You're competing against literally thousands of men. Well, you gotta have the right strategy. If you're interested, and if you're interested in creating your dream relationship, hit up Papa Choi.
