The video excerpt follows Brendan, a 29‑year‑old Canadian speech coach, as he attempts to approach two Thai women in Bangkok during a residential dating program. The segment captures Brendan’s repeated attempts to initiate conversation despite a language barrier, his escalating frustration when the women respond minimally, and the subsequent debrief by the program’s coach (Speaker B) and peers (Speaker D). The coaches praise Brendan’s body language, note his emotional volatility, and critique missed opportunities such as not using a structured “S.W.” (social‑warmup) technique. The dialogue also includes Thai phrases (e.g., “Mai pen rai,” “Fundi na,” “Kap kun ka”) and cultural observations about clothing, work, and hometown. The clip ends with a promotional call‑to‑action for the Papa Club residential program, encouraging viewers to join for further training.
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I tried so hard. Everything was there. Fuck, I'm so upset.
Just a few weeks ago, a client of mine flew out all the way from Canada to join me to learn how to say hi to any woman anytime, anywhere. For context, he's a 29-year-old speech coach originally from Canada. What you're about to see is a depiction of his crazy emotional rollercoaster journey that captures what he learned to create attraction, chemistry, maybe even a bit of love and vibes. Stay tuned. Let's go.
Hey, excuse me. Do you speak English?
Uh, a little bit.
A little bit? Just a little bit? I was just walking and I noticed your look and you look really cute. So I wanted to say hi. Of course. What's your name?
Bang.
Bang or Pang? Bang. Brendan, nice to meet you. Such a pleasure. You know what I'm noticing about you is you have a very unique style, right? You have a light blue shirt, you have dark black pants, and I really like that, Pang. Did you always dress this way?
I'm sorry, what'd you say? Uh, I understand.
Oh, let me speak slower. Let me go slower. So what I'm noticing about your look, Pang, is your top, your blue, is a very unique color. Does that make sense?
Oh, there you go.
Did you always dress like that as a kid? Tell me more. Do you like fashion? Yes?
No?
I don't know what to say.
It's okay. Mai pen rai. Mai pen rai. Okay, um, did you live in Bangkok your whole life? Bangkok? Yes?
No?
So funny. It's okay. Mai pen rai. Okay. Um, what do you do for work?
Oh, work?
Yeah, work. Are you a dancer?
No, uh, I don't know what to say.
You're not sure?
Yeah.
Okay, so you're not sure what's, uh, office job? Okay, so you do an office job. Awesome. Do you like it? Yes. Amazing. Well, it's too bad you don't speak English. You're very beautiful. You're very beautiful. Of course. Okay, cool.
Take care.
All right, cheers.
Take care.
Fuck, that was great, bro. If she spoke English, bro.
No, bro, that's—
I tried so hard. Everything was there. Fuck, I'm so upset, yo. I tried everything.
That was the first time I felt sexual.
Fuck.
Yo, tell us.
I'm so disappointed.
Fuck.
She's so gorgeous! She hooked— she was in. She didn't speak a word.
I saw that.
I kept it.
I was like, "I am—" Bro, you should have even called it out.
That was crazy.
Yeah, that was too long. Yeah, yeah.
Never seen this.
Yeah bro, I've never seen that from you. I felt her.
I was like...
Okay, so what happened? What happened? Didn't speak any English, bro.
I tried everything. No, no, you did try everything. Translator, translator. Ahh.
Translator, bro. Come on, slow down. Slow down, translator. What was that? What do you think I was doing in Moscow, bro?
Uh, no, no, that's probably the biggest miss of my pickup career. It's the biggest fumble.
Yo, is she still there?
Uh, maybe. Left. Where? Where? Where?
Is she the one going up there?
I think so. Escalator. Yeah, I think so.
I want the blue, right?
Yeah, I think so, bro.
Fucking get the ticket, go in there, you know.
But bro, she doesn't speak English.
Can you get her Instagram at least? No, fast, bro, just fucking do it.
Okay, dude, can you just use a credit card? Like, how do you— I don't even—
bro, your life depends on it.
I don't even get any fucking ticket here. Ah, it's okay, guys. I give, I give, I give. She can't be my dream partner. She doesn't speak English. It won't work.
Fuck. Ah, fuck, bro.
Your body language was great, man.
Oh.
Fuck. Yo, something to lift you up, bro. Your body language was crazy good.
Like when I met her and I walked, I was like—
You know why this isn't true? Because with Ant, for example, oh, she is so cute. You didn't do the S.W. You didn't do that.
Well, that was because it was a 2v1, right? And I was really stressed. So many excuses.
Oh yeah, because 2v1. Oh, because she didn't speak English. Because of this. When are you going to not have fucking excuses? Seriously, we watched you. Your body language was like the best it's ever been. Yeah, bro. The best it's ever been. Yeah, the best. The best. Like, so good. Yeah. You were literally standing like this, bro. Look at me like this. I've never seen you stand like this. Not ever. But like, you know, holding the eye contact, standing close.
Like, look at this, right?
This is it, right, bro? Yo, check this out, bro. Well done, bro. Well done. This is him. Well done. Give me that. Grab that fucking bag, bro.
Got to keep playing. Do you speak English? Is there any— do you speak English?
Can you hear me? Yes. Yes.
I just noticed you and I thought you were really cute, so I wanted to say hi. Okay. Yeah, I really like your hair. It's very unique. I like the way that it flows. What's your name?
Mot. Mot? Mot. Mot? Yes.
Brendan, nice to meet you. Nice to meet you. Such a pleasure. Of course, of course. So is Mot your full name? Like, what's your Thai name? Thai name?
Yeah. Nickname?
Yeah. So, but what's your full name? Because Mot is not your real name, right?
It's long. So what is it then?
Lata Napo. Okay, awesome. Let's go. You have a really cute smile, by the way. I really like it. It really helps you stand out, right, from everyone else. Like everyone here, right? And I noticed you, right? So it's really powerful. I really like it. Thank you. Are you Thai? Okay, awesome. Did you grow up in Bangkok your whole life? Yes. Okay, awesome. So you were in Bangkok your whole life from birth until today? Not birth.
I just work in Bangkok.
Oh, you work in Bangkok? So you live in like Chiang Rai or like a different part? Okay, very nice, Mom. I really appreciate that. Very cool. So let me guess what you do for work, Mom. Let me guess what you do for work.
Accountant.
You're an accountant? Oh, you're so boring. Oh my God. You know what's funny? I used to be an accountant, but it was too boring for me, so I didn't want to do that anymore.
Sorry, I have to go.
Very good. Well, I hope you have a wonderful night.
All right, cheers.
Take care. Fundi na. Kap kun ka. There you go. Kap kun ka. Good shit, bro. Yeah, I really fucked up with Peng. No, you didn't fuck up, bro.
Safe to say That was a bit of an emotional roller coaster, right? Big shout out to my boy Brendan, who experiences huge pain, and it was so painful because he had never really expected this would happen. And actually, this is only a small snippet of what really, really happened during our residential. After this experience, he really, really took his soul game to a whole new level., and it created crazy results that he never imagined to be possible. If you're looking to level up your not only dating life but really your self-expression and masculinity, and more importantly, your vibes and playfulness, click on the link in the description below here for a free consultation, and let's see if you'll be a good fit for our residential and Papa Club. Peace.
