Instant dates are all about qualifying and connecting 👩‍❤️‍👨 #shorts #datingcoach #coaching

28 Jan 2025 · 1 min

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In this short coaching monologue, the speaker explains that an "instant date" should be treated as an opportunity to qualify a potential partner rather than assume immediate attraction. He emphasizes that men must assess whether they want to invest further by examining the woman's values, femininity, supportiveness, listening ability, and life choices. The speaker outlines key questions to consider—such as whether she makes the speaker feel heard and aligns with his own values—to determine if the connection merits deeper commitment.

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Basically, on an instant date, what you want to do is actually qualify, because your job as a man is to figure out if this is a woman that you want to continue spending even more time. Just because she says yes to this invitation of instant date doesn't mean that you like her already. You don't know. You're still evaluating whether you want to further invest yourself in this connection. What's actually really important to you? What are your values? You got to like think about that, right? For me, I really like feminine women. Is she going to be a supportive figure? Does she make me feel heard? Can she listen very well? What are her values? What kind of choices she's made in her life? These are the things that you want to find out about it.