Two speakers say the best way to approach women is simple: start a conversation. Compliment something she chose, like her hair or outfit, then ask if she's free for coffee. Authenticity and making her feel seen matter more than a perfect line.
If you are bare minimum, it doesn't matter how tall you are, your muscle, money. This is 100% most effective way to approach women. I have taken notes from men age range 22 to 37, decades of hoeing around. Chances are you are focusing on the completely wrong thing when you're thinking about approaching women. The number one goal of how you start the conversation is to simply start the conversation. One way to do this is with a respectful compliment, especially if it's on something that she consciously chose. This can be her hair, this can be her shirt, all All you gotta do is start the conversation. If compliments just aren't coming into your mind, try to speak relatively slowly, openly invite her out for coffee if she's free, otherwise move on. Super on point.
A lot of the time guys are just like talking about, oh, like, you have such a beautiful face or eyes. Don't talk about what they're born with. Talk about what they've spent a lot of effort in. Makeup, their hair, dress, you know, like they've actually chosen them. From a woman's perspective, they're like, wow, he notices that, like, I've actually put a lot of effort in this. If you feel seen and heard, you don't need to over-compliment them because they just caught your eye. That's literally what it is. Maybe like you found something about them pleasant. Be authentic. Just start the conversation. It's not about coming up with the most charismatic, most beautifully constructed opener. It's not about that. Half the time they're not even gonna remember what actually you said to open the conversation. So just start the conversation anyway.
