In this short dialogue, two speakers share practical dating advice focused on building genuine, human-to-human connections with women. They stress that the cornerstone of successful interaction is active listening, as many women appreciate being heard. To break the ice, they suggest low‑stakes, playful openers—like asking "What kind of candy do you like?"—that require no elaborate planning. Confidence is highlighted as essential; self‑doubt signals insecurity, which women can sense. The conversation also advises giving value rather than constantly asking questions, introducing oneself directly, and treating the encounter as an emotional connection rather than a job interview. Overall, the advice aims to help listeners become comfortable, confident, and authentic when approaching women.
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find a comfort level where I could speak to women. And how to get through that? You're gonna have to practice. And what I would practice is listening. I mean, a lot of women, all they want is a man to listen to them. And I think if you start with that, then you'll eventually find spots where you can interject and offer something to the conversation. And you can just try things also. If you want to try little things to talk to a woman, I like, what kind of candy do you like? Shit that like a 5-year-old would say. Because all it's about is starting the conversation. You don't need to think or worry 3 or 4 steps in advance. Just say hello. You have to get your self-confidence up because if you are thinking that women don't like you, then they're just gonna sense that. Because the thing is, they probably do like you, and you just have to find some ways to be comfortable around them.
Really, really good. The first thing he said is listening. When you listen to someone, they can feel that presence, they can feel that vibe. And that experience in and of itself, a lot of the time they're just like, wow, I've never really experienced anything like this where a stranger just like listens In order to get to the stage where they actually start revealing themselves to you, you need to work your way in. Give value instead of taking value. Don't ask too many questions. And then at a certain point, you're just connecting on a human-to-human level, and then she's gonna tell you more about herself. And then at that point, listen, every human being wants that. The second part, the best opener is to just introduce yourself. Hi, my name is so-and-so. Don't even really think too much. It's all about emotional connections. It's not a job interview. You're here to actually connect with another human being, another soul. What do humans actually respond to? Something that actually spikes our emotion. So he talks about candy, you know, that's, that's really funny. And I like that a lot because it gets you to think outside the box. The better you get at this, the more confident you become in just going out there and then just connecting with people.
