It's so important to capitalize on those real-life opportunities ‼️#shorts #reaction #datingadvice

29 Jan 2025 · 1 min

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In this YouTube short, three speakers discuss their experiences and observations about modern dating apps, especially Tinder. Speaker A recounts an encounter in Japan where a woman admitted she was on the app merely to gauge how many people found her attractive, labeling app users as “losers” who can’t pick up women in person. Speaker B adds that many women turn to apps for a dopamine hit and validation, enjoying the feeling that someone likes them. Speaker C expands on this by noting that, in his professional work with clients, the majority of highly attractive profiles are often fabricated or heavily curated, making them unreliable. He argues that men should focus on capitalizing on real‑life opportunities through cold‑approach techniques rather than hiding behind endless swiping, as real‑world interactions bypass the inauthenticity and superficiality of app‑based dating.

Tinder first came out in Japan. I gave it a shot, came across this one woman's profile, and she said, "I'm just here to see how many people think I'm hot. Guys who use dating apps are just losers who can't do pickup." I think the most common reason women use dating apps is boredom.
It's something that gives them a little hit of dopamine and validation because they know that somebody out there likes them.
I experienced this a lot when I was out in the field back in the day, and when I work with my clients, the majority of the time actually, when you come across profiles of these like hot, really attractive women, they're not even really real. Goes to show that it's even more important to learn how to capitalize on your real life opportunity as a man, to learn how to cold approach so that you can bypass all of this, so that you're not just sitting there hiding behind an app, swiping, swiping, swiping. And like, a lot of the time, not everyone's genuine.