Level up your cold approach 💪 #shorts #datingcoach #coldapproach #datingadvice

16 Oct 2024 · 1 min

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In this short instructional video, the speaker shares practical advice for cold‑approaching someone. He emphasizes that before making eye contact you should first capture the person’s attention, then use a big, friendly smile and a casual opener like “I just saw you from over there.” He warns against rushing the interaction; instead, you should deliberately slow the pace, allowing the other person to settle into the conversation. The speaker notes that many women intuitively pick up on a relaxed, curious vibe, and that a slower, confident approach can calm nerves and make the interaction feel more attractive. The overall message is to be mindful of timing, use genuine curiosity, and let the interaction unfold naturally rather than forcing a business‑like pitch.

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When you first approached, I felt it was a little bit rushed. Excuse me, this is going to sound a little bit strange. Instead of doing that, get the stuff first. Don't even say anything. When you start speaking to someone, before making eye contact, you want to get their attention first and then speak. This is why eye contact is so important. She can see out of the corner of her eye that something is about to happen. So you're good, and then big smile, like, hey, this is going to sound a little random, but I just saw you from over there. You look nice. What I've noticed about you is XYZ. You go from there. Don't try to rush it. Take your time. Ah, the screen— take your time. She might be a little bit rushed. It's your job to slow her down, let her fall into that frame. Slow is sexy. It calms your nerves, calms your vibe. A lot of the time, you women are just like super intuitive when it comes to communication. Just by the cheeky smile, they kind of know, understand you're curious. It's like, why, why is she like smiling so much? You see what I mean? Kind of like enjoying myself. Ah, that's the part I'm not doing. It's not really like a business. It's not like, excuse me, I saw you from over there. None of this energy.