Three speakers explain why men hesitate to approach women and how clearer signals help. Speaker C notes many men in 2025 are "insanely scared" to initiate, so women waving or using obvious body language removes the guesswork and makes it easier for both sides.
Do you shoot your shot at men?
No. Well, shooting my shot is very subtle. I might look at you and then I'm gonna look away. You hit him with the eyes move. That's it. The guy is gonna feel it. Either he's gonna be interested or he's not gonna be interested and he's not gonna come. But you gotta be open, like show that, yo, I'm open. It's okay to come and talk to me.
You know that most men are scared to approach women.
Yeah, but if I look at you and I'm smiling, I'm letting you know it's okay to come.
In this day and age, especially in 2025, as the guy said, most men are insanely scared to approach women. You've learned not to actually talk to women. If women can also understand that is what we're dealing with here, I think it'd be really, really beneficial. I think it'll help both parties, right? Instead of just looking at men and smiling at them, maybe, maybe wave. Instead of just sending signals, hoping that they'll catch them, let's make it easier for the other person to get you.