My best advice for being less awkward when talking to women is this ‼️ #shorts #datingcoach

27 Mar 2025 · 1 min

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In this short coaching video, the speaker offers three concrete strategies to reduce awkwardness when talking to women. First, he advises slowing your speaking pace to about 70‑80% of your normal speed, allowing each word to land and projecting confidence even when you feel nervous. Second, he recommends leading with genuine curiosity—observing something about the woman’s vibe, style, or actions and asking natural, interest‑driven questions instead of rehearsing perfect lines. Third, he suggests building social momentum by practicing low‑pressure conversations throughout the day (e.g., with baristas or gym staff) and adding one extra line before ending each interaction, thereby stacking small wins that boost confidence. He then issues a weekly mission: have three light, playful conversations with women you encounter in daily life, keeping the dialogue curious and adding an extra line after the initial greeting. Finally, he invites viewers to join his “Papa Club” community for further social freedom coaching, asking them to comment “44” for more information.

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Be more comfortable talking to women with these 3 tips. I know you've been feeling a little bit nervous around girls, but don't worry, I got you. Number 1, master your pace. When you're nervous, you speedrun your sentences like you're trying to set a world record. Here's the move. Slow it down. Speak at 70 to 80% of your normal speed. Let each word land. A steady, measured voice projects your confidence, even if you don't feel it yet. Number 2, lead with curiosity. Stop trying to come up with the perfect thing to say. Instead, get genuinely curious, like a baby. Notice something about her—her vibe, her energy, her choices. Maybe she's rocking a unique style, or it looks like she's on a mission. When you're actually interested, the right questions will flow naturally. Number 3: Build social momentum. Little secret for ya: confidence isn't magic, it's momentum. Start with low-pressure reps throughout your day. Chat with the barista about their favorite drink. Ask the gym staff how their day is going. Instead of letting every convo fizzle out, say one more line. Each tiny conversation stacks wins without the pressure of performing. All right, here's your mission this week: have 3 conversations with women you come across in daily life. Keep it light, curious, playful, and after you say hi, just add one more line. Keep it going. Wanna join a group of men unlocking their social freedom? Drop 44 in the comments and I'll tell you more about the Papa Club.