Skip asking for a number. Instead, suggest an immediate date right there to build connection in person. Recreating that vibe over text later is much harder, and switching locations during the date deepens the bond.
It's always try doing an insta date first, and then if it doesn't happen, then do the number. Yeah, yeah. What if I just want to do the number first? No, no, no, no, no, no. I'm telling you not to do that, bro. The lead is right there. It's hot right there. Yeah, the vibe is building up. You created that vibe. Now if she goes away, you either have to recreate the vibe for her to say like yes to whatever invitation that you're gonna make over text later. Way more complicated. The whole vibe, the whole goal for you is to really make her feel seen and heard, create this emotional connection so that she She feels that, wow, it's an unforgettable experience. I've never experienced anything like this before. I want to repeat this experience. Every time you actually switch from one place to another, you create more of a moment, more of a bond with her.
