Take action instead of just participating in a staring competition ‼️ #shorts #datingcoach #dating

3 Oct 2024 · 1 min

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In this short dialogue, Speaker A and Speaker B discuss how men should handle the moment they notice an attractive woman. They argue that instead of avoiding eye contact out of shyness, men should view the encounter as a challenge and practice holding eye contact longer to build confidence. However, they caution against turning this into a creepy staring contest. The core recommendation is to take decisive action—approach the woman, say hello, and move the interaction forward—rather than merely engaging in prolonged eye contact. The conversation blends personal anecdote, confidence‑building tips, and an ethical reminder about respectful behavior.

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What do you do when you see like an attractive girl that you maybe would like to speak to? Do you do that like, oh, you know, I wasn't really looking at her, like I don't want to disturb her workout? I think this is autistic, but I think more men would benefit from this mindset of seeing it as a challenge and actually thinking like, yeah, like I'm gonna hold her eye contact longer than she holds mine.
Yeah, definitely. This reminds me of my younger self. There were so many times when I saw a girl that was attractive and the moment she looks back at me, I would just look away because I was timid, I was shy, I wasn't confident. Later on, I realized that Actually, it's really good to learn how to hold your eye contact with anyone longer. In general, it's a really good mindset to have. Now, if that's the only remedy, it's a bit strange. We don't want to breed an army of men just going out there and just like staring at all these women. That's creepy. What's even more important than that is that the moment you see a girl and she looks at you and you find her attractive, go do something. Say hi to her. Take action instead of just participating in the staring contest. Move the ball in the right direction.