The richer the dude, the weaker the game 😎 #shorts #datingadvice #datingcoach #datingmistakes

20 Apr 2025 · 1 min

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In this YouTube short, the speaker (who calls himself "Papa") argues that wealthy, high‑status men—such as investment bankers, consultants, and tech founders he observed at Goldman Sachs, Salesforce, and London Business School—struggle in dating because they are overly risk‑averse and hide behind dating apps. He contrasts them with lower‑status men who are socially bold, approach women directly, and act soberly, claiming that women respect confidence more than status. He promotes a "3‑second rule": when you see an attractive person, walk up immediately and say something authentic, offering several example openers (e.g., "Hey, my name is Papa. How's the vibe?" and "Your energy looks like it needs a beverage. Aperol Spritz?"). He emphasizes being present, noticing vibe, and avoiding over‑thinking. The video ends with a call to action to comment "00" for a free training on how to approach anyone, anytime.

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The richer the dude, the weaker the game. I saw this firsthand at Goldman Sachs, Salesforce, and London Business School. I was surrounded by top-tier men, investment bankers, consultants, tech founders, printing money, flopping in their dating lives. Why? Because they had too much to lose. Hiding behind apps like it's witness protection. Only talking to women after 3 espresso martinis. Licksmacking harder than a teenage K-pop trainee. Meanwhile, the guys actually winning, they walked up, spoke freely, vibed anytime, anywhere, completely. Sober. They didn't have 6-figure salaries, but they had 6-figure balls. Here's the truth: women don't respect men who play it safe. Social freedom beats status flexing every time. And charisma isn't a PowerPoint strategy, it's a way of being. So next time you see someone attractive, don't wait for clear buying signals like a risk-averse consultant. You got 3 seconds to go say hi. If you hesitate, you've already lost her. Just walk up and say whatever comes to mind. Try, "Hey, my name is Papa. How's the vibe?" Brain freeze? Say something dumb. Try: "Your energy looks like it needs a beverage. Aperol Spritz?" What next? Be present. Notice her style, vibe, and expressions. Don't overthink. Play. If she's rocking all black, say: "Lowkey feel like you just got back from a secret mission. Am I right? Am I right?" The moment you stop filtering yourself, the game changes forever. If you're still wondering what to say next, I made a free training on how to approach anytime, anywhere. Comment "00" below and I'll send it your way.