In busy environments, slow down and project calm authority instead of rushing. Use humor, listen to music beforehand, and break the stress loop that affects both people. Practice builds the confidence that you can handle anything.
I don't think you can pick up a female harder than this. I hope not. Oh, you haven't seen. You gotta be way more authoritative. Because it's so busy. It's so busy. But this really trains you because you can't rely on the vibe always being super relaxed and chill and laid back. I'd say the most important thing is, yeah, slow down, enjoy. When you're stressed, they're stressed. It's like a vicious cycle. For me, I like to listen to my favorite song, joke about a couple of things, you know, and that positive, that fun energy actually carries over to the person you actually stop and talk to. Lots to work on, but you know what my mindset is? If I can do this, I can fucking do anything. Let's keep on going.
