A dating coach tells men that when a woman says she has to go, it's a test. He advises them to mirror her urgency, acknowledge the cue, and reframe the moment as a step toward her meeting her dream man, positioning themselves as that possibility.
The most important thing on a woman's agenda is to find a man. If she's single, if she's available, meeting the man of her dreams is the most important thing. When she says she's gotta go, like, what's more important, meeting a friend or meeting the man of her dreams? But then she might not know that, like, you are the man of her dreams. So it's up to you to actually invite her to be a part of that frame. And how do you do that? If you actually feel the vibes, like, hey, 2 seconds, I know you gotta go, I've gotta go too, but what I've noticed about you, like, continue, you know, give her the gifts of of that possibility. Otherwise, if you just let her go, there's no possibility. If she says, "I gotta go," don't just take her word for it. She's also testing you. So don't just let her walk away.
