A dating coach tells his student he's pushing too hard in cold approaches. The woman never asked him a single question back, which means there's no real interest. Stop asking for coffee dates and let her show she's hooked first.
Oh, so I do have to go.
That's amazing. Hey, I would love to grab a coffee with you. I know you gotta go, but hey, I'd love to keep in touch. You pulled a little hard here. Yeah, I definitely got stressed when she tried exiting. Yeah, yeah, exactly. You can see how like until now she hasn't asked you a single question. You're right, she's not hooked, you know. That's 100% true. And the reason why she asked you a question, either she's not available genuinely or she's interested, but like you haven't really spiked attraction, you haven't done any of that, so there's no connection.
And then you can go catch your train and let me know what you're eating for dinner.
Let What you're eating for dinner, like, that's another pull. It's like, okay, like, send me a text, you know? A little desperate vibe there. Yeah, yeah.
I realize now that I'm rewatching, I didn't do that well in the set that I initially thought of with your feedback now.
