You need to be able to embrace the silence #shorts #coldapproach #datingtips #datingcoach #dating

20 Jul 2025 · 1 min

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In this short, the speaker advises men on how to handle moments of silence when talking to women during a cold approach. Rather than filling every pause, he suggests deliberately allowing silence to linger, which creates sexual tension and makes the interaction feel more dynamic. He explains that varying conversational speed—talking fast, slowing down, pausing, or letting the woman speak—adds excitement and signals confidence. The core message is that comfort with silence and tension is a valuable dating skill that helps a man appear self‑assured and keeps the conversation engaging.

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They think that if we have a lot of silence in the conversation, it's like awkward. So like, how do we do that? You got to embrace silence. If there's silence between a man and a woman, one thing to think about that is that it's like, okay, it might be a little bit awkward, but if you're talking a lot, if the energy is going, going up and up and up and up, and then suddenly there's a silence, let that silence be. It's important to have a bit of this silence so that it actually creates some tension. And obviously, anytime there's like a man to woman, there's like some sexual tension, right? So it's good to know that, like, you're comfortable with that silence and you're comfortable with that tension. It's about what you do with that silence that also like they can see where you stand, you know. If your conversation is dynamic, sometimes I talk really fast, sometimes I slow down, sometimes I don't talk at all, sometimes I let them talk, right? Then it's like more dynamic, it's more fun that way.