You should NEVER approach a woman like this 👀 #shorts #datingmistakes #datingadvice #datingadvice

9 Apr 2025 · 1 min

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In this short video, the speaker warns against the common mistake of approaching a woman from behind, likening it to a pyramid scheme recruitment. He outlines a four‑step method for a respectful, confident approach: (1) accelerate slightly to enter her field of vision, (2) position yourself directly in front of her rather than off‑to the side, (3) make eye contact and add a cheeky smirk to convey playful confidence, and (4) open with a relaxed, honest line such as “Hey, this is a little spontaneous, but I wanted to say hello.” The speaker emphasizes that this creates a relaxed, curious response instead of a jump‑scare. He ends with a call‑to‑action, inviting viewers to comment “99” to receive a free mini‑course on starting conversations anywhere.

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Uh, hey, hey, excuse me. Never approach like this unless you want to be that guy. You see a girl walking ahead and you think, I should tap her shoulder or call out to her. No, stop right there, chief. Approaching from behind, that's how you make her think she's about to be recruited into a pyramid scheme. Not the vibe. Here's how to actually do it right. First, speed up just a little, slide into her vision naturally. No need for Olympic-level sprinting. Second, position yourself in front, not in a less dual way, just comfortably in her line of sight. Third, lock eyes, add a cheeky smirk, because staring at the ground like you lost catch your mom in a grocery store, not it. Lastly, open like a normal, confident human. Hey, this is a little spontaneous, but I wanted to come say hello. Now she's relaxed, curious, and actually open to the conversation. No jump scares, no weird energy, just smooth, natural vibe. So next time, visible approach, easy eye contact, relaxed, playful energy. That's the vibe. Wanna get even smoother with your approaches? Comment 99 and I'll send you my free mini course on how to start conversations anytime, anywhere.