#SYDWAC - Finding Or Fine Tuning Your Purposes

Stop waiting for the right job, money, or partner to be happy. Set a clear intention each morning, build momentum through small actions, adopt a leader mindset, and learn from mistakes instead of fixating on outcomes. Daily intentional action creates the life you want.
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We're talking about how change in action today can create the life of your dreams. Just a little quick topic like that. So someday it's gonna happen, right? If you've ever felt that, you know, when I have the fancy job, when I have the big money or the perfect spouse or the exact number of kids, or when I live in the right spot and all these other external things, if they happen, then I'll be happy. Then I really would feel my life. Then I would really be, you know, able to go and conquer the right. And it can feel hopeful and hopeless all at the same time. When we don't think we can take action in our lives, when we're waiting for something, you know, and over the long term, if we continue to wait for things to happen, they, you know, it could be really demotivating and discouraging because, you know, we don't think we are at where we should be in our lives. Or we thought that at this age we should have this type of achievement, we should have this type of status, should have this type of abundance. But you can't get after it if you don't believe that you can create positive change in your life. And so that's why it's important to really think about being more proactive in our world every day. And, you know, how can we move from that hopeful discouragement into the confidence of being able to, you know, seize the day, as they say, or, you know, to be a mover and shaker of our lives, directing the outcomes for ourselves and for our families and for our careers. And when we believe that our actions matter every day, we can feel unstoppable. Right? That is a huge source of motivation in itself that my actions today can help me get the outcomes that I want out in the world. So it's also, you know, provides us the confidence to know that when we face the unknown, that leads to knowing that we can have a greater impact in our society and communities. And so the question becomes, how can we cultivate that proactive action? And I got four simple things for you guys today. The first is to just make sure you have a intention for the day every morning, outside of just get out of bed. Like, what can we do to move our day forward, move our big ambitions forward, move our lives and purposes forward? And is that on top of your mind? You only do it in the morning and then you forget about it and you end up watching Netflix all the time or what? The second thing is to make sure you gain momentum each day by doing small actions that you can, it could be as simple as making your bed, tidying up your place, brushing your teeth, doing the self care rituals, you know, eating breakfast, you know, your morning routine kind of falls into this. But if we can do consistent action that moves the world visibly around us, you know, we left and impact each day, that can help you get a little bit of momentum to help lead to greater momentum as you move throughout your day. The third thing to check out is to, you know, just believe that we are leaders and change makers in our lives, right? We have the ability to direct where our lives are going. We have the ability to, if we don't like something, to switch it, to work on things get better, to improve, to get that level of mastery. And you know, before I go on, I always talk about too, if you are struggling with this, if you're trying to change, to be more proactive in your career, in your health, with your relationships, with just feeling happy every day, you can go to SeanButner.com coaching to fill out a free strategy session, one hour with me where we can help provide you some tools and strategies and create your plan to get back in the game or to further, you know, create and get more progress if that's what you're looking for. So that said, the last thing to consider is as you are going out there and trying things and maybe it's not, you don't know how it's going to turn out that it's really important to mark learnings and not outcomes. And what do I mean by that? It's if you, I would trust someone, a doctor that hey, made a thousand mistakes versus the one who got it right on the first time. Because the thousand mistakes will teach you all the things that could go wrong and how to maybe handle it or how to prevent it. So there's value in that knowledge as long as you're not making the same mistake over and over and over again. And of course you hope you want, you know, a doctor that doesn't make any mistakes but just the example that came to top of mind because we're live folks. So with these four ideas, you know, we can create more action towards our big ambitions. And that change in action every day can create the life of your dreams. If you are willing to do the work, if you're willing to get out there, to get out of your head, to get into action and to get it done. So with that folks, again you can check out showbutner.com coaching if that's you, if you're interested in that and that said, guys, I'll see you tomorrow. If you have any questions, please comment below the video. Chris, I think that's you. I can't tell with this, but if it is, just shout out real quick, man. Anyways, I'll see you guys tomorrow. Take care.










