Susie TaaffeChief of Staff, RAMMP · Chief of Staff & Strategic Operator | AI-First | RAMMP | Building What Doesn’t Exist Yet

If you are using the word Should or Shouldn’t - red flag for an unaligned belief system!

15 Jan 2026 · 1 min

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When you catch yourself saying should or shouldn't, you're following someone else's rules, not your own values. The speaker argues that real alignment means acting from what you actually want, not from external expectations or obligations.

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And if you do things from your heart and not because you should— and we covered shoulds the other day, but shoulds are just expectations with, uh, that are basically unaligned belief systems. The expectations, mostly shoulds, don't even come from you. That is pointing to our unaligned belief systems. Like, they are a red light, actually, like a red flag, a highlighter. Unaligned belief system. If the word should or shouldn't is anywhere near it, Unaligned belief system, it's like, but if we start doing things from our heart