Susie TaaffeChief of Staff, RAMMP · Chief of Staff & Strategic Operator | AI-First | RAMMP | Building What Doesn’t Exist Yet

Selfish Susie is the key to feeling deserving of you manifestations

21 Sept 2026 · 2 min

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In this solo self‑help monologue, the speaker explains why common manifestation tools—gratitude, journaling, affirmations—often fail. The failure, she argues, stems from a disowned inner part she calls “Selfish Susie.” When this part is pushed down, ignored, or labeled as selfish, it creates an internal tension that makes the person feel unworthy of the outcomes they are trying to attract. The speaker describes an “aha” moment realizing that manifesting desires requires first acknowledging and loving this hidden part, healing its pain, and allowing it to have a voice. By integrating Selfish Susie rather than silencing her, the practitioner can restore a sense of deservingness and align the whole self with the manifestation process.

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So that brings me to the missing key and why our gratitude and manifestation is not working is because we can do the gratitude, do the journaling, say the affirmations, all of that, but if these tiny pieces of us feel rejected and not loved, that's creating a tension in, do I actually deserve that? If Selfish Susie has been pushed down so much, how can I deserve what I want? Can you see that link there? I was just like, oh my God, I'm so glad I struggled with that process because it made me really realize Really realize, that's a good combo of words. How important this front end of the process is, because I cannot get what I want to manifest if I've got selfish Susie shoved in that closet back there, because she's going, oh yeah, we do want that, we do want that, but I haven't acknowledged her and I haven't acknowledged the pain that I've brought her. By trying to be good and do the right thing and don't rock the boat. So I'm so excited, like I just have had that aha in the embodiment of how can I get what I want to manifest if I've got parts of me that I've shoved in the closet and have not accepted as being okay. And loved and a part of me. Because selfish Susie's saying, yes, we really love those manifestations. Yes, please. But I've told her to be quiet. I've told her her opinion doesn't matter because it's bad to be selfish. And therefore, I still have wounding inside of me that actually makes me feel like I don't deserve it.