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Hello, welcome to Susie Unshaped. I'm Susie, and this is where we unshape all of the beliefs and expectations that have been placed upon us that don't let us lead our truly joyful, amazing lives that we're supposed to be here. So I feel like today is gonna be a long one because I have had so many aha moments lately and so much has finally pieced together. Um, so I feel like— and I actually had a friend yesterday that gave me this— I feel like I've got the final key to figuring out how to live the most joyous and blessed life that you can in this lifetime. Okay, so bear with me. I think I'll start— well, I'll start with So if you've been following me, you'll know I ran a 31-day challenge at the beginning of the year, um, called Living from Your Heart in a 3D World. Um, and that was all about how can we stop living from our heads and get into our heart, which our heart knows the way to our most joyous self. Um, but our head is, it's great for what it does, but it is not the leader. It needs to be the practical. Like the one that makes sure I don't forget to pick up my daughters from school and those sorts of things, the non-negotiables. But we can't let it make decisions for us that the heart should be making. Like, the head is great. It says don't touch the burning stove. That's excellent. But it doesn't know what our hearts know. So, uh, I did that challenge, A, to keep myself accountable, and B, Because I actually was like, okay, what does it mean living from your heart in a 3D world? And what does that look like? Like, how does, how does the 3D world throw us off track all the time? You know what I mean? Like, when you're going along and you're like, okay, I'm so in the flow, and you're, and you're, and you're lit, and you actually feel really great, and then all of a sudden you'll flash forward 3 months. And that literally happened to me after the challenge. And I got so in my head and do do do do do. I and I'd just done a challenge on on on this exact thing, and I completely let my head take over. And I was sort of like came to if you call it like that. Three months later, I went, "Where did that three months just go?" I had completely gone onto autopilot. A few times, I'd sort of like brought myself back in the moment, but most of those three months. was spent letting my head be the driver. So our heart is the sat nav. The head does drive, but the heart shows it the pathway to follow. Okay, so if you haven't done my 31-day challenge, I highly recommend it. It's in a playlist here. It's completely free. Please do it sequentially because I'm only figuring out stuff as I record each day. So if you jump to day 16, you're gonna be like, what is she talking about? So you have to come along for the journey to have a clue what I'm I'm saying later on down the track. And then I was actually thinking about this because I'm going to make the challenge into a book and an audiobook, and I was thinking some of the post-recordings that I did post the challenge, I will include them as well as bonus chapters because I think that they actually hold more of the magic key than the, the 31 days. Is great because it makes— it gets us to realize like Why we are here on this planet. Like, why did we come here? Why did we choose to incarnate in a human body? What is the purpose of life? Like, the 31-day challenge answers that. Like, by day 31, you will get it. But the post-recordings after day 31 are where the messiness of life really takes over. And so it's like, um, noticing that, cuz awareness is key. I love this key. I'm gonna play with it all the time. But, um, it's catching yourself in it and realizing, like, when you look back, oh my God, I've been doing this here, here, here, here, even though I've just done 31 days of this and I know what I'm supposed to be doing, like listening to our hearts. Um, so the bonus chapters are really good for seeing that nitty-gritty. Okay, so it is now September. So I did that challenge in January, so 9 months ago, and stuff in my— like, I have been— stuff in my life has been hard. Like, we had the major blessing of finding the beautiful cottage, which I have so much gratitude for. I'm patting the walls right now. You can see the beautiful fireplace. I've never had a fireplace and I've always wanted a fireplace. So you can see, like, this cottage— I love this cottage. I have so much gratitude for it. And there was a messy story to get here, and I've covered that in other videos, but Um, I have great— like, I'm living in my heart. I have gratitude. I have been scratching. Literally, the work I've been doing lately, it, it's been like scratching in the dirt like a chicken looking for food. Or look, like, for me in this case, it was looking for resources. And I've been scratching, scratching, and putting so much effort into it, and just the results are not there. And so I was just like, what? Like, what is going on? Why am I having to work so hard and the results aren't there? Like, I know I am deserving of all the financial abundance in the world. Like, I know that because I did the 31-day challenge and I uncovered why I am deserving right now. And I'll give you the quick Cliff Notes. It's— there's— these are all facts. 1, you exist. Because if you didn't exist, A, you wouldn't be listening to me and I wouldn't be talking to you. So we exist. We all exist here right now. Number 2, because you exist, you must have been made from the universal life source. That is the source of all creation. That is how we are here. That is what our souls are that incarnated into this human body. And so number 3, if universal source is, is like pure love, then you are made of pure love. And anything that tells you otherwise cannot be the truth. So you are pure love. And pure love is deserved of everything in the world. I don't think it's deserved even a word. Anyway, who cares? Um, it's— you're like, you are like connected to the life source. And I use the example of in Avatar, the Eywa tree, the tree of life where everything is connected. All the roots, all the animals, all the plants, all the avatars. So don't— we don't— they're not people, whatever the Avatar race is called. Are they just called avatars? I don't know. Anyway, no, he's the Avatar. I don't know. I digress. I can't remember what their name is, but They all understood how everything was connected with this life force, and they were in flow with it, and everything was like, like they were in appreciation for the life force, but they remembered that they were connected to it. And that's the part that we as humans have forgotten, and we chose to forget it because part of the process is to like figure it out along the way. And boy oh boy, do they put us— well, they, not they, us— put us through some tests in order to figure that out. But Figure it out. We do eventually, especially if you've done the 31-day challenge. But you'll be in different places on your journey in understanding all of this. Um, so my point being, so then I was scratching around, scratching, working so hard for basic scraps of resources. Um, and then in actual fact, that even the, the chicken coop that I've been scratching around with got taken away from me. So I can't even scratch in that coop anymore. And I was like, okay, knowing what I know, which is I am deserved of all the resources available to me in the whole universe right now because I am from the divine life source, the divine life energy, which has access to infinite abundance, resources, supply, whatever you wanna call it. So I'm like, okay. And so I did think back to my actions. I was like, Was scratching around like a chicken trying to find bits of this and this and this and this, was that an abundant, like, were they abundant actions? And I was like, nope, they definitely weren't. They were filled with lack, filled with insecurity. Um, but like full of desperation. So I was like, okay. So I was like, okay, I know that. I know that in theory. Like I know I am deserving of infinite abundance, infinite love, infinite resources, infinite everything. So what are the blocks that are preventing me from having that? I'm just gonna have a sip of my water. And then I'd signed up for this course. I think his name is Edward Manrix, and he teaches the Compassion Keys. Um, and I signed up for it and it was on Wednesday and a few things like I had to drive my daughter here and get her to babysitting and do this and do that. And a few things were in the way and then they cleared and I literally was able to join right on the start time. So I was like, okay, I am meant to listen to this thing. And it ended up going for 4 hours, actually 4 hours, over 4 hours. And it— he hold— he hold the key. Not by itself. The compassion key is one aspect, but I 100% believe wholeheartedly that it is the key to manifesting and manifesting our dream life. So, and I actually even saw a Bashar post this morning and I have been doing everything that they say you should do to manifest your life. And I looked at it and I went, he's missing the key too. And without the key, you don't have the full picture. So I'm just trying to think, should I give you the key first or the— okay, I'm going to give you the key first. So manifesting, like, it's all about, okay, yes, you can know where you go. Everyone knows where they, where they want to be. And yes, we can feel the feeling of it instead of just wanting the things. And we get that. I covered that with, you know, the $10 million challenge. If I gave you $10 million today but the clause was you couldn't wake up tomorrow, it means you would value your life and waking up tomorrow more than $10 million. So it means you don't want money, you want life. So that was a quick recap of that. But would you take $10 million today if you didn't wake up tomorrow? Like, have a Fantastic afternoon, best afternoon of your life. But that was it? I don't think so. I think there'd be very, very few people. And you can't— and everyone tries to cheat this. You can't give it away, can't give it to your children, you can't invest it for anyone. It is a finite— you get it for the day, that's it, it's gone the next day. Because the point is to put a number on how much you value life. So next time you're thinking, oh, I just want— I'd love $10 million, wouldn't that be great? The flip is, but I get to wake up tomorrow, so I wouldn't trade that. So your life and waking up tomorrow is worth more than $10 million. Okay, I digress massively. Where even was I? Okay, so the Compassion Keys is all about— oh, I was talking about— that's right, manifesting. Manifesting. Manifesting, we get what we have to do and then be in gratitude. Be in gratitude for where we're at right now. Like, bless whatever you have because if you were two rungs down, you'd be so grateful if you had it. And like thinking it from that perspective, like okay, so we know that part. That part you can get a million books on that, probably even more to tell you the truth. million books, a million posts, a million everything. And so that made me think— sorry, now I'll tell you what the Compassion Keys are. The Compassion Keys is basically shadow work. And see, I've done shadow work, I've done a lot of shadow work, and there is a bit of shadow work in the 31-day challenge as well, which is basically like unidentifying with the bad labels that you've given yourself, someone's given you, society's given you, whatever they are. Anything that you deem is bad. We do that, we work through that in, in the 31-day challenge, that they cannot be true because you exist. Therefore, you are pure love, and pure love can never be bad at all. And if you want to really deep dive on that, Conversations with God by Neale Donald Walsch is a brilliant resource. You can listen to it on Spotify. He is amazing. And he goes into it in much better depth than I can. Okay, I am getting to the point, I promise. So I've done that shadow work separately, and we've done the gratitude work separately. I think the missing link is doing the work together in a process. So we can say we're grateful and actually feel it and actually sit in it and know we're deserving. We can do all of that, but the key is the part of the compassion key that Edward taught me on Wednesday, which was acknowledging the part of you that feels sad or angry or, or, um, like just disappointed That you had to go through that. You've sort of been skipping over that part and just jumping to them to the end, basically. But I think the process actually starts with: I am so sorry that you've had to carry all of this burden, emotional, financial burden on your own. Like you start with the I am. So sorry that you. So it's like, it's like your higher self is talking to you as the human. If the higher self is too hard for you to relate to, maybe it's like, like imagine like your favorite, like grandma or grandpa or some best friend that's always so supportive of, supportive, ah, can't speak, supportive of you. Imagine them saying it to you like, I am so sorry that you had to dot dot dot, and then you list the feelings that you're actually feeling. And that is—that's the compassion key. Like that is the key to giving ourselves the compassion that we need. And so I feel like obviously at the beginning you're going to have a lot, and you can go through Edward's process. He has lots of resources for free. free. And I found that a lot of them dissolved. They dissolved a lot of stuff very quickly for me. And I think having done the 31-day challenge was great because I theoretically already knew I was deserving, but there were still blocks in there. And he calls it the lightworker's persecution imprint. So that might be too wordy for you. I'm just going to call it like the secret key. The secret key in the process of being able to live in joy. And if we stuff down the parts of us that are actually hurting and just jump forward to the gratitude part, we're actually like— we've kind of shoved them in the closet. Like, we've shoved them back over there. Like, get in the closet over there. We're great. We're grateful. We're grateful. You be quiet. Like we know, we know that we're grateful. We know, like we know why that, like, and that's another thing is like I can look back and I know why things have to happen. Like I can see them, and so I was short-circuiting the the compassion for myself and jumping straight into the okay, I know why that had to happen. It had to leave me here. Da da da. But I was skipping the part where I was like. I am so sorry that you were nearly homeless and had nowhere to go. Like, I am so sorry that you felt so alone and unsupported in that. I had completely skipped— I'm about to cry. Like, this is how it— like, this is how amazing the link is of this work. Um, like, it just blew my mind. So that is the magic key. And then I was lying in bed last— actually, no, I had an event yesterday. It was a fantastic event in LA, so I had to drive. So I had a lot of driving yesterday, nearly 4 hours. And I listened— I love listening to tarot on YouTube, and I was listening to a lot of tarot on YouTube, obviously. And they all— oh my God, the messages were were just so clear. And so like, one of them was actually a message about running yourself ragged, like working and working and working, working, and like literally standing on the spot and getting nowhere. And I was like, chicken scratching, scratching, scratching. What'd you get, 3 kernels of corn or something for a day of scratching? I was like, yes, that was me. And then her like— and that was actually a shadow message. And I was like, yes, okay, guilty. But then the solution was come back to, come back to yourself and like what lights you up, what brings you joy. And recording this is bringing me joy. And I finally had the penny drop as well for turning the 31-day challenge into a book. But then I've also been writing my Scandalicious book, which probably will be a different title now because it's evolved into like real life situations, and then we're going to work through the magic key of them. And I'll tell you now what the penny— how the penny dropped. I think it was last night I was in bed and I remembered the— I never get the name right, but the Hopper No No No No Prayer. Hopper No No Prayer. It's got Hopper No No or Hopper No No No No. I don't know. Anyway. It is a like really old Hawaiian prayer, and it is: I'm sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you. And that, ta-da! That is the quad, the quad factor. What's a quad factor? I don't know. No, a quint is a five anyway. That is the four pieces of the puzzle. So we've been doing thank you by itself, but without I'm sorry, please forgive me, thank you sitting out here all by itself. We need the three parts so that we can end up at the I love you part. It's a three-step process, and I think a lot of people from what I've seen on the Hoppa Nonna Nonna prayer, whatever it's called, I really should. I've learnt that right, but you'll get it when you see the spelling. I think you're saying it repeatedly, but I feel like it's more you're saying it just out to the universe. So I'm sorry to other people. I don't know if it's directed so much inwardly. It might be. I could be completely wrong, but I think that's the key. It's the daily practice of journaling. Or speaking or whatever it is you do to get your. I love to speak, speaking. I'm not a journaler, but I think the format of the Hoppa Nonna Nonna prayer—I'm so sorry. So it's like I'm so sorry that you felt so alone and unsupported through this challenge, and then it's please. Forgive me for not knowing how to access any resources better. Mm-hmm. Or maybe— sorry, I'm figuring this out as I go. No, maybe it's like, I forgive you for not knowing how to do it any other way, because it's someone talking to you, because you're giving yourself the compassion and the forgiveness. Thank you then. I think we've all got thank you down. Everyone, like, we've all figured out how to be grateful. Um, and if you haven't, we can do a quick, like, recap. Um, just thank you for this chair I'm sitting on. Like, when we first got this cottage, I had to find— I had no furniture. So at one point we just had— I think we had a couch and a table, but we had no chairs. But one bed, one couch, and a table. And that was it, no chairs. So I am grateful for this chair I'm sitting on. I am like— I am like, find the little things that you're grateful for right now, because if you didn't have them, you'd really wish you did. Like, I'm trying to— like, we can be grateful for the big things. Like, I'm so grateful for my children and my family and all of those things, But if you need to start small, like I remember when I was going through a really bad, like very bad, like heavy anxiety, and I had to start so small that it would just be in the morning I'd wake up and I'd be like, I've got so much to figure out, I can't do this and I can't do this. So I was like, okay, gratitude. And I would just feel the underside of my pillow. You know, you get that cold side and it feels so nice. And I'll just be like, Oh, that's nice. Thank you for the cold underside of this pillow. And then I would start working my way up. Thank you for this pillow. Thank you for this comfy bed. Like, just start and build and build, which is, I think, a little bit Abraham Hicks style. She's like, just choose the better thought. Don't go down the spiral of anxiety. Choose the better thought. Just start small. What can you be thankful for right now? Like, what can you feel that— Thank you that I get— that I've woken up and I've got 15 more minutes sleep. Like, like, find the, the next best thing you can find. Okay, then you think, thank you that— like, do you see what I mean? And just build on it. Thank you that these covers are actually really warm and cozy. Or thank you that I have a window and there's a beautiful breeze blowing through. Thank you that the sun is shining. Like, notice the birds playing outside. Thank you that the birds are here bringing me joy. Look how cute they are. We had hummingbirds at that house and And they were so gorgeous. I would just— I just loved watching them. I just sit there and watch them, like, thank you for bringing me the hummingbirds and the bees. Like, start super small. So if I look back on that time now with the magic key, what I would have done when I woke up like would have been compassion first. I am so sorry that you are waking up full of panic and anxiety. Like, I am so sorry that you feel like you don't have any pathways to walk, like, to move forward on. I am so sorry... See? And then, I forgive you for coming here without enough of a plan. And thinking that you could figure it out. Like, I forgive you, whatever you feel like you need forgiveness for. So the I'm sorry and the I forgive you go hand in hand. And then I would've added on the thank you for all the things. So I was bypassing acknowledging the part of my soul. Or is it our soul? No, it's probably the part of my ego actually, because the soul doesn't feel these things. This is all the ego. This is the mind. But I was like skipping over the part whether I actually acknowledged, I am so sorry that you feel like you don't have enough resources right now. Like, I am so sorry... Do you see what I mean? Then go It's like, it's a, it's a 3-step process. And then it's like, at the end, it's like, I love that you had the balls to make a major leap and look at how amazing you've come so far. Like, I love that you had the courage to find a better life for your girls. Like, that is the connection. We are like acknowledging Acknowledging, yes, I am so sorry that it has been so hard for you. I had not been acknowledging to myself. I was fast forwarding. It's like, no, it's okay, it's okay, it's okay. I'm okay, I'm okay. But I wasn't okay, and I was skipping over the part to tell myself I was okay. And it's really interesting because a few well. Actually, quite a few major things have happened in the last one to two weeks. Like major sort of what do we call it? Not triggers. They're not triggers. It's more like patterns. Wounds have presented in my life. So of other people do doing stuff to me, not really. And then I was listening to one of his. Phrases, which was something like, I am so sorry, the other people are just your karma playing out. And I was like, whoa, because if like this life is just a projection— after the 31-day challenge you'll understand what I mean by that— like we are just projecting, we are creating our reality. So anything that comes up in your reality, e.g., people doing things to you or like pulling the rug out from under you, or like whatever they're doing, is actually you doing it to yourself. And when he said— I'm getting it wrong, it's not exactly what he said— was like, I am so sorry that these people are showing up in your life to play out the karma for you, or whatever we use— karma, I don't know— it's to, it's to show you what wounds you need healing. And I was like, that was just massive penny drop. I'm like, okay, if I look at these 3 situations, what is the wounding telling me by them doing what they've done? What am I missing? Because this has repeatedly come up and up and up, like, oh, it doesn't happen all the time, but you'll get— and they're clangers, they're big ones. And I'm like, okay, what am I missing? I'm missing something because I wouldn't keep getting it shown to me if I wasn't missing something major. And the missing piece is the front end of the equation. The I'm sorry and please forgive me. Well, for me, that was the missing piece. Like, I understand I'm deserving because I understand that I exist, therefore I am deserving. I understand that in the core of my being, 100%, and I understand that if I exist, I am deserving of all the resources and abundance in the universe. So why are these blocks coming up? Like, why are these things presenting themselves? And it's— for me, I wasn't acknowledging the hurt part of myself and forgiving that part of myself for just not knowing any better, not knowing that we needed to carry that wound because we exist and we're universal love. But I didn't know that back then when I'm getting this Getting the wounds. So now I can clear those and I can heal those wounds and tell myself that I am so sorry that that happened to you. I am so— you could just start with that. I am so sorry that happened to you. And you're talking to yourself, or pretend a friend is talking to you, but I like to just imagine it's my higher self talking to my head. Because the head is the one that's storing all of this stuff. That's where the wounds are. Our heart knows that we're deserving. It's always known. But the head has got all these filters and layers in it, starting from not even this lifetime. Like, I definitely believe in past lives, 100%. Well, technically they're not past, they're all simultaneously, but that's a story for another day. But so we carry these traumas and woundings From other lifetimes as well, as well as from even from conception, like in the womb, you get belief systems passed down to you through your mother, maybe through your father talking in vicinity. Babies can hear in the womb. So like, this is conditioning that you probably aren't even aware of. So just start with, I am so sorry that happened to you. I am so sorry that you felt so sad. I am so sorry that you felt unloved. You need to say them out loud. I'm not sure if it works to write them. You could try it. I would— if you write them, I would say them out loud at the same time. We'll just double-edged sword that one. Um, yeah, so that is the magic key, and that's the key to removing— like, when something comes at you that you're like, oh, why is this happening to me again? Look at it from the key perspective. Like, instead of like, why is this happening to me again? How about you say, I am so sorry this is happening again. I am so sorry that you feel overwhelmed because this is happening again. And find out, like, write it. Like, actually, I was thinking, actually, I think like maybe one way to start this is to write down all the stuff you're really annoyed about. Write it all down, and then you flip it to, I am so sorry that XYZ. I am so sorry the next I am so sorry, the next thing that's annoying you. And then you move into the forgiveness. I forgive you for not clearing your blocks, so this came up in your life again. I forgive you for ignoring the wounded parts of yourself to make you have to relive all these awful experiences again. But you get what I mean, like, I'm like, it will be smaller than that. You— the forgiveness doesn't need to be on a huge level. Just forgive yourself for whatever the circumstances were that made the wound reappear in your life. Or if you don't like— some of them will just come flowing out on the paper and you won't even know where they came from. It's like, I forgive, like, when you're in utero, I forgive you for being unable to actually have control over your thoughts or stored emotions. Like a baby has no, of that, has no control over what's being programmed into their little brains at all. So anyway, that's the magic. It's just 3333 right now. I'm trying to think if I want to include anything else with this. Probably just, I suppose, the link to then I love you. It's like from a state of, like, like compassion, which is the I'm sorry, forgiveness, which is forgiving yourself for the situation that caused the I'm sorry, then gratitude with which is the I thank you, that is the overarching theme, to be in pure love and harmony with yourself because you're no longer denying yourself that you had those experiences. You did, and they were very real, and your brain has stored them— thank you, brain— as very real experiences. It may have even inflated them, may have even Inflated them. It probably has inflated them, especially old ones. Um, and so from when you've got— when you're ignoring all of those parts, that is why we can't like assimilate into pure love. And why even if we know, if we theoretically know it, I wasn't embodying it. From the 31-day challenge, you will theoretically know it, but To embody it, I think it's this three-step process which then leads us to the I love. So, for example, like I am so sorry that your Airbnb cancelled and you were nearly homeless and had nowhere to live. And then it was like, please, I forgive you for not having any plan or backup in place, for being so. Trusting that everything would go with the flow like you always do. And then, thank you that that situation enabled us to find our cottage. And I love you because you were so strong and held it together through that process to end up in a house that we love. You see how it flows? And that then becomes a complete 360 of the process. And then we just repeat it and repeat it and repeat it and repeat it until those wounds get the compassion and forgiveness and gratitude and love that they deserve. Okay, the trucks are starting up really loudly next door. So I am going to go, but I'm so excited. I'm actually going to, um, bring on my sister Cass again because everyone loved Susie on the Sofa with Cass. So we'll do a live video link because I think Cass— they find— they— you guys find Cass's energy so grounding. And I think when we have dialogue, it helps to understand it from 2 people's way of speaking. To not just hear it from my like words because I know sometimes I get a bit caught up and I recently heard a term for it. It's called dolphin-ing, the ADHD brain where we zip and zip and zip all over here. And Cass is an expert translator at the ADHD conversation. We'll be walking along and especially where I get really excited when I talk to Cass and I get and and and so that makes my dolphin-ing worse. I'm like da da da da da and she'll be like just. Just wait, hang on a second. Like, I know where— I know you know where you're at, but can you please just join a few dots before that statement so I can just understand like where I'm catching up to? And this will be like 15 topics of conversation in about 3 minutes. And, and she's just so calm and peaceful and like, okay, just give me the few thoughts you had before that sentence came out. Anyway, We love Cass. Um, and I love you lots, and I was so excited to share this with you today. And I'm going to— I'm sorry, I don't know if I ever finished that, but I'm going to finish my Scandalicious book, which I will change the name of now, because what it is is a series of— I'm writing it from like it's a choose-your-own-adventure. It's like, do you need— what do you need today? And it won't have It'll just have topic headings. So, feeling angry? Are you feeling powerless? Are you feeling like you don't like your body? Are you feeling unloved? Whatever it is. And then it will take you on a journey through my story about feeling like that and what part of life it was. And, and then at the end, we are now going to add in this new 4-part framework in a journal to work through the process of the feelings. And I'm going to include my actual answers in the journal as an example, and then you can write your own and go through the process to start healing our lives together. So I'm so excited because me writing this part of the book is going to actually heal my wounds that I haven't acknowledged because I was missing the key. Like, I've done the Shadow Work separately. I've done the gratitude work separately, but I've never linked them all together. So thank you, Hoppa No No No No, for giving me the inspiration that all 4 parts are essential in the process done together. And then I'll also have in there— I'll record some beautiful meditations around each subject as well because I love doing that, and I'm really excited about it. Okay, I love you lots. Bye! Bye!