This content was created by Suzanne Noble. This content was uploaded by Suzanne Noble. This is a YouTube video titled "2023-09-12" (uploaded 2023-09-12) containing a single-speaker monologue in which the speaker discusses what makes someone "good in bed." The speaker offers sexual/relationship advice, emphasizing enthusiasm, interest in the partner, communication, being unselfish, and basic technique.
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What does it mean to be good in bed? I was reading a comment the other day from a woman in a Facebook group to which I belong, telling about this relationship she was having with this guy, and the sex was awesome, off the scale, but the relationship was coming to an end and she was worried she wasn't going to have sex that good again. And many of us weighed in and said, no, don't worry about that. There are so many people out there who enjoy having sex, who are good at giving pleasure, who really enjoy just the whole experience. You will meet someone else if it's not working, just get out of it. And I think that's the thing, it's like, what makes somebody good in bed? Enthusiasm, being interested in the person that they're with and wanting to give them pleasure, not being selfish, being communicative, asking people if they're enjoying themselves. Is this feeling good? Just basically being able to be open and expressive and to just be there for the other person and to feel that energy that that's between you, that happens when you are, you know, being intimate, having really great sex. I think what makes somebody really bad is just generally that they're selfish. I don't think it's that difficult to be interested and good in bed. It just takes interest and enthusiasm and a bit of technique.
