A woman reflects on how sex gets better with age when partners engage in erotic storytelling, drawing, or describing lingerie instead of just sending pictures. The anticipation and imagination matter more than quick encounters.
So rather than it's just like, send me a picture, yeah, I want to see it, it was like, no, no, stop, I don't want you to send me a picture, I want to draw this out, I want you to, I want you to, um, write me this story about this piece of lingerie. There's so many ways, especially as an older person, to make being— having sex with someone so much fun and so much more fun than it used to be when I was younger, when it would just be like so quick. Like, now I really appreciate the person who wants to really draw this out so that by the time I'm in the bedroom, I'm like, I'm so ready.
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