A man's girlfriend adjusted his dating app to show younger women, prompting him to explore why younger men pursue older women. He cites advocate Cindy Gallop and notes older women are seen as experienced, drama-free, and skilled sexually. Most younger men want short-term fun, though some seek longer relationships.
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As my girlfriend showed me one day when I said I wasn't getting any matches, she just literally pulled the bar down across the screen and made my search from 55 and above to like 37 and above. And I know Cindy Gallup, we've had conversations, she's been on my show, you know, she is one of the main advocates for the benefits of going out with younger men. And I do get it, like younger men have their benefits, right? They're interested in older women probably because, well, frankly, we're easy. We're just easy. We're drama-free. We don't have much estrogen, so there's not a lot of drama going on there. We've got a lot of experience. We know how to go down on a guy and make him feel good. And, you know, mostly— and I think that I get why they— I get why they like us. I, you know, it's perfectly obvious. Do they like us for the long term? Probably not. But for short-term fun, or I mean, I guess if you're Madonna maybe they're in it for the long term. But, you know, by and large, I think most younger men are looking at older women as fun, short-term relationships, you know, whatever. But for older women, I just think, yeah, okay, it's kind of nice, but there's something to be said about age-appropriate relationships, and there's something to be said about being able to talk to a man and have the same relative cultural references and all of that sort of stuff. And I do think that these articles, they're not indicative of what I see generally.
