2023-09-14

Let's talk about the way that men talk about sex amongst themselves versus women. I suspect when men talk about sex, certainly what they tell me about when they talk about sex with their mates, is that it's kind of jokey, it's locker room banter. There's not a lot really that goes on about the actual nitty-gritty. It's just more about getting it on and, you know, she had big boobs or whatever. But when girls talk about sex, when they do, and not all women want to, but with my girlfriend, certain girlfriends, when we talk about sex, I'll tell you, we go right into detail. And one of my friends was telling me about an episode in which a guy went down on her and was so into it that he basically started wanting to drink up all her juices, which he was doing and making a very, very funny noise, which actually was quite off-putting. And she found it difficult not to laugh. And I know somebody's done that to me, like, you know, really gone in there. And yeah, if I want to take a shower, I'll just have one. I don't know if guys think that just by going down there they're doing you some sort of massive favor and you're just going to come all over the place, but certainly for me, that level of like getting in there isn't actually that pleasurable. If you want to know what turns your partner on, just ask her. Ask her if while you're doing something, does that feel good? You know, 'Where should I put my tongue? Maybe my fingers?' Just ask. But that kind of sucking somebody out so that they're like clean as a whistle, not really that horny.