2023-09-15

Guys, how confident do you feel when you're going down on a woman? Friend of mine has made a request to say how she likes a man to go down on her, and she said, could you just make a little video about that and illustrate it? So I'm going to give you a little bit of an anatomy lesson now. Here's the vulva, and up here you'll find the clitoris, and above the clitoris and around it is the clitoral hood. Now don't pull that back when you're going down on a woman thinking that if you get right on top of that thing they're going to love it. It's actually super sensitive and can be quite painful. So we just want to leave that clitoral hood where it is and lick around that area. Some women like one side more than the other, whatever, just ask. And then my friend was saying what she really, really loves is when a guy sticks his fingers inside and does like a come hither motion at the same time as licking around this area. This kind of come hither motion which hits her G-spot and that general area. It's like that. It's not like super deep inside, it's just like a sort of like that. You might just use one finger, and that is really, really super pleasurable. And she was saying that some guys that she's with, they just don't seem to kind of get what she means. And she asked me if I'd make a little video. So that's licking around this general area, then fingers inside in that kind of come-hither motion until your partner explodes with pleasure. What we don't want is this kind of stop-and-start thing that sometimes goes on where you get all excited and then suddenly they stop what they're doing. You're like, what, what was, what, why are you doing that? Just like when you're getting a handjob or a blowjob, you don't want somebody to suddenly stop unless of course you've asked to move on to sexual intercourse. Maybe that's what you want to do, but it sometimes drives me crazy when somebody gets me all worked up and then they just stop. Maybe they're bored, I don't know. But, you know, carry on for as long as you and the person that you're doing this to is enjoying themselves. By all means, ask what area around the clit they like to be explored. Like I said, some have one preference over another. And then there's fingers inside and this kind of come hither motion. And let me know how that works out for you.