A woman argues that porn-inspired sex moves like excessive talking and squirting attempts turn most women off. She urges men to skip the script, stay quiet, go slow, and actually pay attention instead.
I wanted to say, guys, stop having porn sex. I have noticed recently that more and more men want to have what I call porn sex, where they're just talking nonsense to you, they're trying to make you squirt, they're sticking their fingers in your ass, all sorts of things which frankly are for the most part not very pleasurable. And generally I just like things kind of slow and relaxed. I want to be I don't want too much chatter, certainly not of the porn type. And I just think that porn has influenced so much of male sexual behavior, and for a lot of us women, it's a massive, massive turn-off. So if you're thinking about saying any of that stuff that you've watched in porn, just keep it to yourself. Shh, be quiet, go slow, be present, be here.
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