Are all older men crap at sex?

Are all older men crap when it comes to sex? That's a contentious one, isn't it? I was with a woman the other day, an older woman who happens to be an escort and sleeps with a lot of men in their 60s and 70s, and she said that most of them haven't got a clue what to do when it comes to sex. And we discussed this, and my reaction to it is that, well, if people haven't got a clue when it comes to sex, it's not because they're crap at sex. It's just because they haven't been in a relationship where there's been any communication about sex. And I don't think, frankly, that anyone out there is a mind reader. So if a man isn't satisfying a woman in the way that she wants to be satisfied, then I don't think it's the man's fault. I think it takes two to tango, as they say, and it's up to the woman and the man to talk between them and to talk about what they like. And there are some pretty easy ways that you can do that to start with. If you're the man, you can just say, "Does that feel good? What would you like me to do?" And if you're the woman and someone is doing something and it's not satisfying you in any way, then you can literally just take their hand or any other part of their body that's involved and you can, you know, put it in the place where it's gonna feel better. So I think it's not that men are crap in bed. I just think that for a lot of couples, and I know I was in a marriage where we just didn't talk about sex, if you don't communicate what you like, then you can't expect a man to just know what it is that you enjoy. So if you've gone through life never talking about sex, never sharing with your partner what it is you like, and as a result, they're not doing the things that you enjoy, then I don't think it's the guy's fault. I think it's up to two people to be able to share what it is they enjoy, and that way each of them becomes a better lover for each other.