Master one specific sexual skill to become indispensable to partners. The speaker argues that while general competence matters, excelling at one particular act—whether oral sex or something else—gives you an edge that keeps people coming back.
One thing that I think is important is in sexual play is to become very good at one specific thing for it to be your trick, as it were. Um, you should be good at sex overall, of course, and be able to pleasure your partner or partners or, or whatever. But I think it's quite important that you become known as the person, as the man or woman who can do a certain thing very well. Um, a good blowjob is worth its weight in gold, for example. Um, being very good at going down on a woman, um, and performing cunnilingus, um, really well you know, develop some sort of, um, some sort of aspect of your sexual behavior which makes you kind of indispensable, um, and because they will never get a better experience from anyone else. And that, you know, that's something worth having.
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