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Bondage and BDSM

13 Feb 2023 · 1 min

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In this brief YouTube segment, the speaker stresses that any bondage or BDSM activity must be consensual, safe, and within participants' limits. She argues that light, consensual bondage—such as using fluffy handcuffs, tying a partner to bedposts, or engaging in gentle flogging and spanking—can revitalize a couple’s sex life, reconnect them with dormant fantasies, and add excitement to the bedroom.

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Let's talk about bondage. Again, this has to be done with consensus, and it has to be safe, and you have to make sure that you don't go beyond your capacities or do anything dangerous. But a bit of light bondage can be a good way to regenerate your sex life and to get back in touch with some of those desires and fantasies which you once had. Most people have at least thought about fluffy handcuffs or tying each other to the bedposts or things like that, and it really can be quite fun. A little light flogging, a little light spanking, all those sorts of things are really quite a turn-on and quite hot and can be a really important way to make things better in the bedroom.