A woman asks ChatGPT what older women want in relationships with older men and gets five generic answers: stability, maturity, shared experiences, understanding, and common interests. She reads them aloud and pushes back, noting her own friends don't match the AI's description at all.
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I've become a bit obsessed with ChatGPT recently, the conversational AI tool that's, you know, blown up and everybody's been talking about. And I ask it ridiculous questions just for fun because, you know, what else have I got to do? And I asked it this morning what if it could help me to understand what older women are seeking in relationships with older men. You know, I was just curious to know what it said, and here's what it answered. It said stability and security. It said women, older women may be looking for a partner who's financially stable and can offer them a sense of security in their relationship. Well, I thought, you know what, I stopped believing in Cinderella quite a while back. Maturity, maturity. Older men are often viewed as more mature and better equipped to handle the ups and downs of a relationship. Debatable, I thought. Shared life experiences. Well, here's why I thought, yeah, we're on the same page with this one. Older women and men may have more in common in terms of life experiences, and this can create a strong bond between them. Not sure about a strong bond, but some kind of bond. Understanding. Understanding. Older men may be more understanding of the challenges that older women face, such as transit, career transitions, caregiving responsibilities, and health issues. Well, ladies, I'm just going to put that one out there to you. How do you feel about that? And finally, common interests. Common interests. Older couples may have similar interests such as travel, hobbies, or cultural pursuits. Which can deepen their connections. Well, clearly they've never met most of my friends that have still managed to stay in long-term relationships. So there you go, ChatGPT's answer to what older women are seeking in relationships with older men. Do we have anything to worry about with ChatGPT? I'm not so sure.