Suzanne Noble talks about anal play and why it's not inherently gay. She explains the male prostate as an erogenous zone and argues people should stop worrying about labels around sex.
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To all you guys out there, to all you guys that were talking about bum play, saying that it was gay. I've just been having a very in-depth conversation with a friend of mine who argued that pleasure is pleasure, and if you enjoy giving butt stuff to your female partner, then why should it matter if she does that same thing to you? What makes that gay? After all, men have got a prostate, which is an erogenous zone, and we girls, we don't. That's not to say that lots of women don't like stuff around their anal area, but I'm just saying that you guys, it's a more, you know, it's a thing, right? Because you've got that. So I just ask you to think about that thing about, you know, and who cares if it is gay? Like, what the fuck, who cares?