In this monologue, the speaker reflects on the myriad ways people experience sexual pleasure, from cervical kisses and G‑spot stimulation to whole‑body sensations. Drawing on a prior conversation with tantric priestess Maure Simon, they express frustration with the lack of a shared vernacular and the risk that naming specific orgasmic phenomena can make some feel inadequate. The speaker emphasizes that pleasure is highly personal, varies across individuals, and should not be judged. They argue that over‑reliance on technical terms can alienate, while fostering relaxed, open communication about what feels good can enhance intimacy and enjoyment. The overall message is a call for inclusive, judgment‑free dialogue about sexual pleasure, treating words as tools rather than gatekeepers.
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I was thinking about sexual pleasure and how many different ways there are to describe things, or not. We were having a conversation with Maure Simon on our podcast, who is a tantric priestess, amazing woman, I love her. And, but one of the things that I do struggle with, with the whole kind of tantra thing, is the various ways that they talk about cervical kisses, cervical orgasms, G-spots, vaginal this, and all the bells and whistles that go on in your body, which for me literally are just that. They're just things that go off in my body that feel good, that make me happy, and fill my body with endorphins and stuff, and I just love them. I don't have words for them. I don't have any real vernacular, and sometimes I think that if I did, people might feel excluded because, let's face it, we all experience sensations in all different ways. And for some people, it's very centered around the genital area. For some people, they feel it throughout their entire body. Me, I start to see, like, you know, kaleidoscopes in my brain, and I suspect that's to do with lots of oxygen and other stuff. I don't really know. But I do know that what I don't wanna do is make other people feel that they're in any way inadequate in how they respond sexually, because I think it's a very personal thing. And as much as it's nice to have some words that we can attribute to some of the stuff that goes on, I also think that if we start to use too many words to describe all of this sort of stuff, that sometimes we can feel that we're a bit inadequate because maybe we're not capable of having a vaginal orgasm or a cervical kiss or a cervical orgasm or whatever is going on for you. I don't really know, but I do know that the more that we relax and, and become intimate with somebody and the more we are able to talk about our pleasure and how we like to experience pleasure and what feels feels good and what doesn't feel good, then the more we are able to appreciate and enjoy sex. And the words, they're just words.
