Edging, Prostate & Control: What Men Over 50 Must Know

Let's talk about older men and solo play because there are some real advantages to masturbation, or wanking as some men prefer to call it, especially when you're older. Let's talk about edging. Edging is when you bring yourself almost to the point of orgasm and then stop and then go Go back again, start again, build up the intensity, stop, build up the intensity, stop. Edging does a number of things, but mainly it helps build control. If you're a guy that's prone to come quickly, then edgy can really help you build on that control. And prostate stimulation— I know it's something that some guys just absolutely love and some guys think means that you're gay. In my view, prostate stimulation is just a another area of pleasure, and we know that prostate stimulation can enhance orgasm intensity. So there's nothing wrong with stimulating your prostate. You can use your finger, you can use a number of toys that are available for prostate stimulation, and it can just feel fantastic. And as I said, it can build your orgasm intensity. And fantasy integration matters. And what do we mean by that? We mean thinking about that fantasy, not necessarily through watching pornography, but just imagining what it is that turns you on. And that in itself can also help increase the intensity of your orgasm and just make everything feel better. A full-body approach improves results. So the more time that you take, the more that you're incorporating fantasy into your solo pleasure sessions, the more you're touching other areas of your body body as well, like your nipples, for example, which for some men are highly sensitive. You might find the inner thigh also super sensitive. Prostate, of course, we've spoken before, also super sensitive. The more you incorporate that full body approach, the better results you're going to see. Here are some actionable steps that you could think about taking. Practice 15 minutes of edging. There's a fantastic male masturbator that a partner of mine has used called the Blow Motion, which he rates as being absolutely wonderful when it comes to edging. And if you use my promo code LOVEHONEY on Lovehoney, ADVICE15— ADVICE15 is the promo code— you will find that you will get a discount off of that. It's a fantastic male masturbator toy, great for edging. Use audio erotica. It's not all about the visual. There are some fantastic auto erotica available on Spotify, and just Google audio erotica, and I'm sure you'll find something. If you found this video helpful, then please click subscribe, and I have a weekly newsletter at sexadviceforseniors.com. It's free, and I'd love you to receive it.