Munches are public, sex-free social gatherings where people new to kink can meet others and learn about the community. Find them on FetLife, which lists events worldwide. The speaker is in Thailand and attending a local munch that evening.
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How do you go about meeting kinky people? Well, the easiest way is to start by going to something called a munch, and a munch is a social where people that might be kinky get together just completely in a vanilla way, just to check each other out, meet each other, find out what each other's into, with the view that if they connect, if they get along, if they're like-minded, they might go and meet each other again at another time. But it's a completely sex-free environment. It's usually held in a public space, and it really is the best way if you're interested in kink to just get to know some other kinky people and find out more about whatever it is that you happen to be into. Um, where can you find these? Probably the best way is to look at something like FetLife, which has got munches that go on all over the place, all over the world. I'm currently in Thailand, believe it or not, and there's one that's going to be going on this evening that I'm going to go to. So I'm very excited about that. But FetLife is the best place to check out where those munches are, and you don't have to be scared, you don't have to be worried, because nothing actually goes on there. It's just an opportunity for people of some kind of kinky persuasion to get together and meet each other.
