This content was created by Suzanne Noble. This content was uploaded by Suzanne Noble. This is a YouTube video (title: 'Following are common, a woman made about how unfamiliar many men are with the female anatomy, I thou') uploaded on 2023-09-16. It contains a single-speaker monologue in English in which an older woman (referencing her 62 years of experience) explains female anatomy—focusing on the clitoris and how clitoral orgasms occur—offering practical advice about positions, direct stimulation, use of vibrators or fingers, and how partners can help.
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Let's talk about clitoral orgasms and how that stuff works. Yesterday a woman said in a comment that she thought a lot of men just didn't understand female anatomy, and you know what, if I reflect upon all the sex I've had in my 62 years, I would say that's probably true. But you know what, we can help them. So here's the diagram again of the vulva, and this little button up here is the clitoris. That's our pleasure zone. That's where all the action happens. The nerves extend into it, and that feels really good when you're having sexual intercourse. But if that little button's not being stimulated, then it's unlikely that you're going to have a clitoral orgasm. Of course, some people might say that it's possible, but I know for me it's not. So how are we going to get that little button stimulated, which is on the outside, when the intercourse is going on on the inside? That's the big challenge, isn't it? And that's where the position that you're in and how much contact that little button is making with some part of your body comes into it. I know for me that if I'm on top and I'm rubbing against the pubic bone, this little button is getting stimulated, constantly stimulated, and as a result of that, I'm likely to have an orgasm. If I'm having sex and my partner is behind me, from the side, or any other position where all of the stuff is going on inside but nothing's going on with this little button, then yeah, it feels really good. And some people say they can have vaginal orgasms and all of that. But for me, that's the one that I want to be touched, constantly stimulated, not infrequently, because it's the constant stimulation, bit like the head of your dick, that is going to produce the orgasm. So when you're considering how you're going to have sex so that that little button is stimulated, Sure, you can do it. You can have sex from behind, but you're probably gonna need a little bit of help using something like a vibrator to get that little button stimulated. Your partner might want to reach across and use his fingers, but not infrequently, he's gonna have to keep going at it if he wants the magic to happen. Or your fingers if you're comfortable, um, doing that sort of stuff in front of your partner, and I know not all women are. But that's the way our anatomy works. The little button is on the outside. The nerves extend into the inside. But we really need for clitoral orgasm to— for that little button to be constantly stimulated for all that great pleasure and for the clitoral orgasm to occur.
