A woman talks about why hard pounding sex is painful for her and many others, blames porn for normalizing it, and says men should ask their partners what they actually want instead of assuming.
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Hard pounding sex. I was having a discussion with a girlfriend of mine a couple of days ago, and she was saying that all the guys that she meets recently, that's the kind of sex that they want. I don't remember having that kind of sex when I was a younger person, but I know nowadays I've met more people that are into that. And Peter says it feels good, but for me, frankly, it doesn't. And I suspect for a lot of women it doesn't. Maybe for some they really love that, but for me, I don't really enjoy it. And having something banging against my cervix, frankly, is really painful. So I think, again, it's probably another one of those things that's been, that's come about because people have watched too much pornography and women are moaning and groaning and looking like they really enjoy it when actually they really don't. So if you wanna know if your partner likes that kind of sex, then just ask them. And if they say, "No, it's not really my thing," then either don't do it, or find somebody that enjoys that if you're that hung up on it.