A guide to oral sex that starts with genuine enthusiasm and moves through four practical techniques: avoiding teeth, varying suction pressure, asking what your partner likes, and focusing on the clitoral area. Communication and mutual enjoyment matter most.
Let's talk about blowing the love whistle. Some specifics around making sure that you're delivering the kind of pleasure that your partner likes. Firstly, enthusiasm counts for a lot. You actually have to enjoy doing this. Otherwise, let's face it, nobody wants to feel that they are pressuring their partner into doing something they really don't want to do. The second thing is no teeth. Lots of forums that I've read have talked about the worst experience ever being one that involved teeth. Third thing is suction. How do they like it? And you know what, the best way to know that is to ask. Hard and fast, soft and slow. You can gauge somebody's pleasure usually by the noises that they're making or just general appreciation. And the fourth thing is Don't ignore the berries. Lots of guys like their berries to be stroked, sucked, touched. So ask them what they like down there. But number one rule, I think, is just overall enthusiasm. You gotta like it.
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