Kissing works better when you talk about it. Ask your partner about their preferences, mirror their style if you like it, and pay attention to what they enjoy. A mismatch in technique might mean you're not compatible.
There's nothing like the first kiss, is there? I was thinking about kissing the other day, and you know, there's so many people that judge others on whether or not they're a good kisser, and I think that's fair enough, actually. But kissing is so personal, and so much can be said about the way that you do kiss. But getting to a point where you're both enjoying kissing can be accomplished when you start a relationship, especially by asking questions like, "What was your first kiss like?" or "Do you like a little or a lot of tongue?" And my experience is that if you are with somebody and you kiss them in the way that they're kissing you, funnily enough, they think they're a really good kisser. Or that, you know, I'm a really good kisser. And so that's one little trick, is to mirror the other person's kissing style, assuming it's a style that you like, of course. But I think kissing is really personal, and knowing how somebody likes to be kissed is really important, because let's face it, if they're not a good kisser, it's unlikely you're going to go any further.
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