A woman describes three ways men respond when she sends lingerie photos, from dismissive to enthusiastic. The winner: he describes what he sees in detail, makes her wait for the picture, and takes control. Older women can use lingerie to turn themselves on as much as anyone else.
How to turn on an older woman, and I want to give you an example with 3 different responses. So some of us like buying sexy lingerie, and some of us like sending pictures of ourselves in that sexy lingerie to men that we are attracted to, and their response will very much demonstrate whether or not that gets me aroused. Now, just putting on the lingerie gets me turned on. I love wearing sexy lingerie. Lingerie, and it's one of the things that I always suggest to older women that can really enhance your own sex life and start getting those wheels turning. So you put on the piece of sexy lingerie, you stand in front of a mirror, you take a picture of yourself, you send it to a man that you are really interested in, and his response is, "Ooh, fabulous!" That's it, nothing else. No, well, just nothing else. Let's do it again. You send it to another man that you're attracted to, and his response is, "Ooh, wow, that is amazing. I love the way it clings to your curves. I love the way it shows off your breasts. Your ass looks great on that. I can't wait to get my hands on you." Ooh, now the wheels are turning in my head. He's getting excited, I'm getting excited. I've enjoyed sending that picture, and he's demonstrated to me that he certainly enjoyed receiving it too. Third guy: Hey, can I send a picture of myself in some sexy lingerie I just bought? He goes: No, no. Instead, what I'd like you to do is I'd like you to describe for me what that sexy piece of lingerie looks like. You're like, hmm, curious. So you start writing: What does this piece of lingerie look like? Well, it's got no back, it's crotchless, It's got this deep V-neck. It's made out of this lacy stretchy material. It clings to my curves. It makes me feel really good. It looks really hot on me. And you describe that all to him. You send it over as a little text message, and his response is, okay, now you can send me a picture of yourself in it. Already you've established this kind of role play. He's been quite dominant. In that exchange, he said, "No, I don't want to see that picture." That's kind of caused you to kind of like be a little bit like, "Ooh, that's a really interesting dynamic." I've really enjoyed writing all of this down for him. While I'm writing it, the wheels in my head are turning about like, "Oh, what does this thing look like?" Describing it in as much detail as I can to really get his imagination going. And then when I send that picture over, his response is really appreciative. And I know that should we get together, it's gonna be really hot and horny because already I've got the sense that he's established this dynamic between the two of us. So there you go, 3 different examples, 3 totally different responses. For me, the third one really was the one that massively turned me on. Second one worked okay too, but the first one, nyeh, didn't really do anything at all.
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