Suzanne Noble describes posting about visiting Cap d'Agde, a naturist village, and getting bombarded with inappropriate questions from men asking about her body. She explains why these questions are irrelevant and suggests better ways to start a conversation.
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Let's talk about stuff that really pisses me off and probably pisses off lots of other women too. So I'm going to Cap d'Agde, this naturist village in France, and I posted on a Facebook group that I was going. And I did that because I wanted to know if there were going to be any other people there at the same time that I could meet up with. And at the moment I'm going on my own, so I would like to meet some other people, you know, so I'm not alone all the time. But rather predictably, although I'm always surprised because I just think, what is wrong with you people? There are always people who think that it's appropriate just because I posted on this group to ask me completely inappropriate questions. The most recent of which was, the first thing they said pretty much was, am I shaven down below? Now really, how many times would you start a conversation with asking a question about somebody's pubic hair? Probably never, and nor should you, because when you want to meet somebody and just hang out with them, asking them about their pubic hair isn't really relevant. So guys, honestly, seriously, if you want to just hang out and meet somebody, just ask nice questions like, hey, what are you planning on doing? And have you been before? And, you know, What kind of stuff do you enjoy? And that sort of thing. Not, do you have hair down there?