Suzanne NobleHost, Sex Advice for Seniors · Sex, Dating & Relationship Advice for Over 50s

I tend to prefer silence and the sound of a persons breathing changing rather than the ongoing narra

19 Nov 2023 · 1 min

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In this short monologue, the speaker discusses "dirty talk"—the verbal narration some people use during sex. She notes that while occasional, brief dirty talk can be arousing, continuous, relentless narration—especially from men—can become a distraction and even inhibit orgasm. She emphasizes that, like many sexual preferences, the key is clear communication with a partner about how much verbal stimulation is enjoyable versus overwhelming.

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Let's talk about dirty talk, or the running narrative that some people like to use while they're having sex. Men especially, I've met some of them just love to talk continuously while they're doing it, telling you all the things that they enjoy, all the things that they want to do to me, all the things that they're thinking about. Sometimes in small doses I quite like it, and it can be really horny, but when it's relentless, for me it's a big distraction and often can just prevent me from having the big O. But I think dirty talk is one of those things, like many things in sex, where it's best to communicate with your partner how much of that you enjoy and how much of that you wish they just keep to themselves.