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I think one of the hottest things a guy can do is to actually take the initiative and not just when

21 Aug 2025 · 1 min

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In this short spoken monologue, the speaker explains that one of the most attractive qualities in a potential partner is the willingness to take initiative. While acknowledging that sexual initiative can be exciting, the speaker emphasizes that non‑sexual initiative—such as suggesting a restaurant, planning an activity, or finding something enjoyable for both people—demonstrates thoughtfulness and consideration of the speaker’s interests. This proactive behavior signals genuine interest and compatibility, and the speaker describes it as “so hot.”

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I think one of the sexiest things that a person that I'm interested in can do is to take the initiative. And I don't just mean in the bedroom, although of course that's super sexy, but I mean in other aspects like suggesting a place to go out to eat or a thing to do or finding an activity without me having to look for it. Anything that actually shows that they've thought about my interests and they're trying to do something that they that we would both enjoy doing together. God, that is so hot!