I was actually quite dishearted to read a comment from someone when referring to men who like stuff

Let's talk about butt play. I was talking about this with somebody the other day and about the fact that, you know, lots of men like stuff up their butt. They like rimming, they like fingers, they like tongues, whatever. They just enjoy it because, you know, guys have a prostate and that is a very sensitive area that when fondled can feel really, really nice for them. But her comment was, "He must be gay." Well, Just because you enjoy having pleasure in that area does not make you gay. It doesn't have anything to do with your preferences for one gender or another. It just means you enjoy pleasure in that area. So let's just get that straight, guys. If you enjoy that, good for you.