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I was reading some sex therapist talking about advice that they always give couples in relation to

3 Oct 2024 · 1 min

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In this short monologue, the speaker expands on a common relationship advice point—being desired—by emphasizing that desire is not limited to sexual attraction. They argue that both women and men need to feel wanted and valued continuously, not just in the bedroom. The speaker suggests practical, non‑sexual ways to convey desire, such as lingering kisses, warm hugs, and verbal compliments about attractiveness. By highlighting these small, everyday gestures, the advice encourages partners to demonstrate love and appreciation through actions that reinforce emotional connection and mutual feeling of being desired.

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Relationship advice number 5, or something like that. Let's talk about being desired, feeling desired. As a woman, and I think as a man, desire is just not about sex. Desire is about feeling wanted, right? It's about feeling that somebody wants you and desires you, not just in the bedroom but all the time. And there is a lot of little ways that you can demonstrate that, that don't have to and shouldn't have to lead to sex. A lingering kiss, a nice hug, telling somebody they look attractive, both for men and women, because I think men also want to be desired, not just us ladies. So show the person that you're with that you love them, and not just by, you know, going at it, but actually by those little small ways that show that you are wanted.