IDFO 2

Internet dating part 2. Let's talk about your profile summary. This is the part where you get to tell the world the kind of person that you're looking for and a little bit about yourself. Sometimes that's split into two parts, sometimes it's all in one. I would ask yourself, first of all, think about your good qualities, and if you can't figure out what those are, maybe ask a friend what it is about you that they like so much, and, uh, because that's always a really good reflection of how others see you. When you're thinking about what you're looking for in somebody else, really think carefully about this. Oftentimes, I think, as older people, we don't think about, hey, this is the kind of time in life where we can actually redesign what our relationships look like. Maybe you just want something casual and fun. Maybe you want something more serious. Maybe you want somebody to just do very specific activities with you. Maybe you just want to see somebody up the weekend, and maybe you just want somebody that you can chill out with on the sofa, just watch a bit of telly, have fun, go to restaurants, whatever. But think about this, because it doesn't have to be like the relationships in your past. You might decide you don't even want to be monogamous anymore, and that's entirely up to you. Or maybe you've got a kink that you want to explore and you've never been able to do that before. This is your time. You can tell the world all about it. And that's all I'm saying to you is be honest, be genuine, be yourself, and try to use proper spelling and proper grammar. And if you struggle with that, then take everything that you've written, stick it into ChatGPT, and just say rewrite for grammar and clarity, and it'll do it for you. But it won't rewrite the whole thing completely. It'll just make it sound a little bit better.