Ask better first-date questions. Skip the job talk. Instead ask when they feel happiest, what their weekend looks like, how an ex would describe them, and what they want their future to be. These reveal who someone actually is.
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Internet dating for oldies, part 8. Let's think about those questions, those insightful questions that you can ask someone on the first or second date. They're going to give you much more interesting answers than, you know, what do you do for work, what did you do for work. Questions like, when are you at your happiest? What does your typical weekend look like? What would your last partner say about you? And finally, How do you see your future? What does that look like? Those kind of questions are going to lead to hopefully lots of really interesting discussions beyond just the kind of boring ones that give you kind of predictable answers and hopefully are going to let you, you know, consider whether this is somebody that you actually want to see again.