Suzanne Noble, in her early sixties, talks about how female arousal changes with age and reads cruel TikTok comments she received. She asks people to stop posting mean things online and be kind instead.
I made a short video yesterday talking about female arousal in one-sixties, speaking personally about how it takes a little bit longer to get excited, to get aroused, and not that women of my age don't want sex, but that it's just going to take a little bit more time to get us excited and warmed up. And I had the predictable TikTok comments from men telling me that I don't look 61, I look 71. I don't know what 71 looks like. Or that they wouldn't have sex with me anyway, or that they would rather have sex with a 30-year-old. All very predictable. And I have to wonder, just generally, when I receive comments like that about kindness, just generally about kindness, because I think that All of us want to be in relationships with people who are kind, and that means not making horrible comments, and that means just generally trying to be nice to each other. Even if we don't want to have sex with the other person, that's not to say that we should just completely ignore their feelings and just be generally horrible. And I suspect that a lot of people that leave nasty comments like the ones that I receive are not kind and probably are not in relationships or not in happy relationships. So I just wanted to, for everybody really, to just think about kindness because I think it's important that we live in a world where as much as possible people are kind to each other. Don't you?
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