A speaker addresses concerns about exploring swinging, noting it attracts older participants who use it to revive excitement in long-term relationships. The novelty of sharing sexual experiences can inject fresh energy into partnerships that feel stagnant.
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Somebody yesterday wrote to me that said that they were thinking about being more experimental in their marriage, wanted some advice, especially around swinging. And I would say one of the things about swinging is you will find a lot of older people in that lifestyle, loads of them. In fact, I think it attracts a lot more older people, predominantly because it is one of those activities where if you're in a long-term relationship and maybe it's gotten a bit boring and stale, then you know, having fun in front of other people, bringing other people into your relationship, just messing around with other people can be really fun and can just, you know, put the pep back into your relationship again. So I would say, like a lot of alternative lifestyles, you will find many, many older people in them. And that's because, well, we all probably got bored and thought, what else is there out there?